In our impression, Dubai is a place where land is scarce, where everyone is a local tycoon and lives a life of drunken gold fans.
Presumably, the children in Dubai have grown up in the money jar and never worry about money.
A 5-year-old girl was taken in by the rich people of Dubai because of a sweet smile when she was traveling to Dubai with her parents.
The rich man in Dubai immediately explained to the parents of the little girl that he wanted to adopt the little girl, but the girl's parents actually agreed.
In this way, the 5-year-old Chinese girl stayed in Dubai, and her father in Dubai loved her very much.
The other children did not reject her because she was a foreigner, but were extremely friendly to her, and soon the girl was integrated into this happy family.
Dubai's rich are very generous to this daughter, whether it is eaten or used, almost everything is a luxury, and the price is not cheap.
A little girl who used to live an ordinary life has now transformed into a proper little princess.
However, some people will worry that under the excessive wealth of Dubai parents, will the little girl become vain?
Such a possibility exists.
What are the adverse effects of children paying too much attention to substances?
1. Form a wrong view of money
Children are young and not strong in judgment, and many times they will take the words and deeds of their parents as the code of conduct.
If parents overemphasize the importance of materials, then it will inevitably lead to the formation of a wrong view of money, everything is material-oriented, naturally it will be unfavorable to the growth of children, and even go to a crooked road.
2, causing children to love to compare
When parents pay too much attention to material, the child's focus will naturally be on the material.
They will show off their designer clothes and bags to others, satisfying vanity in the envious eyes of others.
But if you encounter something better than yourself, you will immediately compare and fall into a vicious circle.
Compared with material enrichment, spiritual enrichment is more important
1. Let the child read more
There is a house of gold in the book, and there is a beautiful jade in the book.
In the book, we can absorb a lot of knowledge and broaden our horizons. Parents should let their children develop the habit of loving reading, which will benefit their children for a lifetime.
Of course, this requires the guidance of parents to carry out parent-child reading when the child is relatively young and cultivate the child's interest in reading.
When the child is older, parents can choose the right books for the child and let the child travel in the world of books on their own.
2, take more children out for a walk
Nowadays, many parents only pay attention to their children's scores, and let their children write homework and write test papers as soon as they have time, and almost do not give their children a chance to breathe.
Such children may not have bad academic performance, but their hearts will be depressed, and their spirits are full of desire to resist.
Smart parents should also spend a little more time to take their children out for a walk and get close to nature while urging their children to learn.
Walking thousands of miles is to broaden the child's vision, and the child's insight is particularly important, which can make the child's inner world incomparably sufficient.
If family conditions permit, parents can of course give their children the best possible material living conditions.
But even so, the child's spiritual world is still the most important, while giving the child material, we can not ignore the child's spiritual world, so that the child can get better growth.