After the Spring Festival in 1992, li Hong, the wife of the writer Yu Qiuyu, returned to Shanghai to visit relatives, and when she was sorting out her desk, she did not expect to find a love letter written by her husband to the Huangmei opera actor Ma Lan. But Li Hong chose to be silent, but it was not long before he received a call from Yu Qiuyu, who filed for divorce from Li Hong. Soon after, Yu Qiuyu married Ma Lan, who was 16 years younger than himself.
Yu Qiuyu was once evaluated by the famous scholar Mr. Yu Guangzhong: "Chinese prose, after Zhu Ziqing and Qian Zhongshu, came out of Yu Qiuyu", which shows the cultural level of Yu Qiuyu.
However, many people's evaluation of Yu Qiuyu is not high, for the simple reason that it is nothing more than his emotional history.
In August 1946, Yu Qiuyu was born in a small town in Yuyao County, Zhejiang Province, his father was a local civil servant, his mother was a lady of a large family, although the family was not rich, but his father's income was more than enough for daily life.
When he was a child, Yu Qiuyu showed an artistic talent that was not commensurate with his peers, he was very intelligent and studious, and he was very obsessed with literature.
In 1963, Yu Qiuyu was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, and due to his excellent grades, he worked at the Shanghai Theater Academy after graduation, responsible for enrollment.
One afternoon in 1974, a woman burst into the door of the admissions office in anger and argued with the admissions teacher about admissions.
The girl's name is Li Hong, she is an authentic Shanghainese, born in 1951, 5 years younger than Yu Qiuyu. Her parents were both intellectuals, but because of "going to the mountains and going to the countryside," Li Hong did not get the opportunity to apply for art schools until she was 23 years old in 1974.
She ranked among the top of more than 1,000 candidates and successfully passed the interview, but then the college did not admit her because of Li Hong's family conditions. Li Hong had a hard time accepting such a result, so she went to the admissions office and wanted to fight for herself again, so she met Yu Qiuyu.
After li hong's many door-to-door appeals, the two gradually became acquainted, but due to the factors of Li Hong's family composition, they finally did not obtain the admission qualifications, even Yu Qiuyu, who worked in the admissions office, had no way.
Although Li Hong was not admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, he deeply attracted Yu Qiuyu because of his young, beautiful appearance and his unique temperament - Yu Qiuyu fell in love with Li Hong at first sight.
After that, Yu Qiuyu began to actively pursue Li Hong, and he sent Countless love letters to Li Hong, and Li Hong read them one by one.
Once, Li Hong fell ill due to overwork, Yu Qiuyu immediately rushed to Li Hong's side and carefully took care of her, and later Li Hong, and under Yu Qiuyu's careful care, quickly recovered, while Yu Qiuyu himself fell ill.
In 1979, Yu Qiuyu and Li Hong married.
After the two got married, although they were crowded in a rental house and ate rough tea and light meals, such a dull day made the newlyweds very satisfied, and in 1984, the daughter was born.
Later, Yu Qiuyu resigned from the Shanghai Theater Academy due to some problems, and the leak in the house coincided with overnight rain, and this year Yu Qiuyu was unfortunately found to have hepatitis.
In order to bear the burden of her family, Li Hong went to the factory to work as a female worker, but because Weibo's salary was difficult to support the family's daily expenses, Li Hong decided to go to Shenzhen to develop. Li Hong worked as a female worker in Shenzhen to send money to Yu Qiuyu every month, so that Yu Qiuyu could devote all her energy to literary creation.
In 1983, Yu Qiuyu's review of political issues was concluded and he was reinstated. He also completed a series of books such as "Historical Draft of Drama Theory" and "Aesthetic Psychology of Drama", and won national awards after publication.
A few years later, Yu Qiuyu also returned to his position and became the youngest professor at the Shanghai Theater Academy. After a while, he became the dean.
In 1989, Ma Lan became the most well-known Huangmei opera actor in China with "Yan Fengying". At this time, a teacher she respected gave her a book "Art Creation Engineering", written by Yu Qiuyu.
In 1991, Ma Lan went to Shanghai to perform "Remote Finger Apricot Blossom Village", and she wrote a letter to Yu Qiuyu, hoping that he would come to see her performance. In this way, the two met, and then the two secretly fell in love.
Malan knows he is married, but still passionately pursues his love. And Yu Qiuyu has long been tired of Li Hong's boredom and has fallen in love with Ma Lan, a young and enthusiastic girl who can communicate with herself. So the two came together.
In 1992, Li Hong, who suddenly returned from Shenzhen, accidentally found a love letter to Ma Lan on her husband's desk. But at that time, Li Hong did not immediately go to Yu Qiuyu theory, for the sake of the family, she chose to be patient.
However, in July after the publication of "Cultural Journey", Li Hong received a divorce agreement from Qiu Yu.
In order to make up for his wife and daughter, Yu Qiuyu told Li Hong that all their expenses would be borne by himself in the future, and he would try to help him if he could.
After the divorce, Li Hong went to Shenzhen, determined to start her new life there. Three months after the divorce, Yu Qiuyu also married Ma Lan.
Not long after marrying Yu Qiuyu, Ma Lan quit his job and single-mindedly took care of Yu Qiuyu, perhaps Ma Lan single-mindedly helping Yu Qiuyu's career, which made the relationship between the two more solid.
Because the difference between the two is 16 years old, there will naturally be many people criticizing the combination of such an old husband and young wife, but even if there are many gossip, the two are still hand in hand and still live together.
Yu Qiuyu once said, "There is no perfect person in the world, people living in the world will always be more or less criticized by others, but so what, no one can empathize, only to be ashamed."
Yu Qiuyu's emotional experience allows us to see the other side of his faded writer's aura, his casualness about feelings and his determination to Li Hong.
Perhaps there is no right or wrong in love, only whether the time is suitable, if Yu Qiuyu and Ma Lan met earlier, knew each other, and fell in love, would this farce of "negative hearted man" not be staged.
Maybe we can't blame Yu Qiuyu for choosing Ma Lan, but he does owe Li Hong too much. "The wife of the chaff cannot be abandoned", the right and wrong of Yu Qiuyu, everyone has everyone's opinion. #情感点评大赏 #