It has been 8 months since I came to Russia, and several of them have been separated from Martha, and I almost went to register for marriage, because the single certificate brought by the country was not strict, I did not register successfully in the registration office of The Cloth City, and went to the Haba Consulate to re-certify, but after I came back, I moved away, and the middle was together again, but in the end we became passers-by.
Here's an article written those days, find it out, and post it again.
Stopped for two days and made a decision that might feel wrong in the future.
I took back Martha and Nasja.
Half a month after leaving Martha, I also went back to see her, all when she asked for food and Nasjia's milk powder diaper was not wet, Russian infants and young children have basic living security, I think no matter her, she also held on to the past, but it is the mentality of a rotten good person, she went, which also made Martha have a grasp of me, every time I saw me carrying food and Nasjia's supplies, Martha turned her face and desperately hid her proud smile.
Nasja has been more than three months old, she can turn over, she can also drink milk in front of the bottle herself, and her voice is louder.
It's time to pay the rent for the apartment where Martha lives, and she keeps texting me saying, "I don't have the money to pay the rent, I don't know where to go, and I don't know what to do." ”
I replied to her: "You should face it yourself, it's not my fault, it's not the result for which I'm responsible." ”
There have been such conversations for several days in a row, and this morning Martha said, "You come and take me and Nastya away, the landlord is coming at 14 o'clock, and we're going to live on the street with our things." ”
Well, I went to help her pack her things, and the landlady arrived when we were leaving, and chased after the overdue rent for a few days and the utility bills for the whole month, and presumably she saw Martha's appearance and had nothing to continue to ask for.
I took Martha and Nastya back to the apartment I was staying in, which may have been a wrong decision, but I lost out to desire and need.
Martha said: "She hardly exceeds 50 kilograms when she has a height of 1.71 meters.
Russians hold children like this, not quite like our habits
After separating from Martha, I also came into contact with and met several girls, and I asked directly: "If you live with me, I will bear the rent and food of the apartment, and I will also give gifts, you are free and you can leave at any time." Would you like to? “
I can only ask directly, and I don't have the ability to speak.
One girl would answer: "That fits me, I'll think about it." “
Such girls, generally in the suburbs tens of kilometers away from the city, do not want to live in the countryside, and there will be housing pressure in the city. If you live with me, solve the burden of accommodation and food purchase, there is simply no pressure in life, and the part-time job and work that you are pursuing can not be considered, play.
There is permission to live with me, Tamara is willing, she is a 23-year-old girl, she said that she has served in the military, with a place to live, there is a sense of psychological security, no matter how there will be a place to live, but continuous early in the morning back, I can not stand it, directly told her this is not OK, suspended the attempt to live together. Russian girls do not pester, carry boxes and leave, unlike the domestic men and women separated, to break everything clear, to say what is not usually said, to denigrate and belittle and even humiliate each other...
With Martha, there is a feeling of need, we need each other, this is the reason why we are back together now, as for the future, let go, if you are depressed and die now, what is the point of saying the future?
Martha promised to make some changes, and I told her, "If you take your daily photos and videos seriously, you'll be a star, you'll be rich." ”
I gave her advice, registered an account for her: Martha, who loves to cook, every day from the beginning of procurement, I will help her shoot, to come back to cook, cook, and taste, eat, if you do too much or big fish and meat, you can invite friends to come together, grilled meat grilled fish snack salad can be, to show Chinese some Russian daily or special meals, through these programs, see the details of Russian daily life, will be very popular, to the time of running maturity, each episode of the show invites a few beautiful girls to eat, drink...
Will you watch it?
Making such a video, purchasing ingredients every day, should be more expensive, and what is missing now is this thing.
After Martha registered her account, someone asked her in a private message: What to say about her 56-year-old boyfriend, that is, me.
Some people also ask: Why do you want to find a boyfriend who is so old to live with?
Some people also ask: Don't speak, how do you communicate?
Also ask her: Russian girls don't care about the age of men. Wait a minute.
Martha wrote a long article, she said it was written by me, and I posted it in the previous article.
Some readers have posted the software translation in the comments, probably the meaning is clear, and it does not matter if the word is not up to the mark.
The gist of it is: "I won't say the right or nice things, but I think you'll understand me and I'll say exactly what I think."
My friend called me the other day and we've been dating for eight years and she said she had a fight with her husband and was breaking up. After talking to her on the phone for an hour, I didn't understand the reason for their quarrel, and by the way, there was an emotion running in the blood of the Russian girls, not knowing why they were angry and arguing with their men.
But they finally reconciled... What did I say (in persuasion)?!
I've been lucky enough to meet someone like Sasha.
Yes, he is already a mature, unique personality.
Yes, he is 56 years old!!
But his actual situation, age is only the number in his file, in his soul, is still a boy, not that he is irresponsible.
He is undoubtedly reliable.
He behaved very well with me and was very patient, in fact it was difficult to do that considering we all spoke different languages.
Although there are a lot of people who don't understand why I live with a man who is older than me, I would say that any woman, not only in Russia, wants to have such a husband, and men also have a lot to learn from this person, because not everyone can accommodate a girl with a young child.
This is a girl with children! In Russia, men don't pay attention to a woman with children (maybe such a woman is more independent), and I was surprised when I saw Sasha's attitude towards Nastya, not every father cares about children.
- "What do you like?" “
- "What would you do?" “
He watched me eat, paid attention to what I was doing, and I was impeccable to him.
My friend jokes that we can only talk and communicate through translation software.
"If you quarrel, your respective mobile phones are translating, and you are finished arguing, the mobile phone is placed next to you, and the translation continues."
Sasha didn't behave like a parent to me, which is very important because I'm not a 20-year-old minor.
In that regard, I think we are all adults.
In another circle of friends:
On that, I think everyone should be like him. There is a Russian proverb that says:
"You can't make everybody say yes."
What I want to express is: no matter what language you speak, your age is not important, your character is important.
I hope someone reads these words...
I'm going to make dinner for my man. “
Looking at these words now, those scenes seem to be right in front of you, and Martha is also a true expression of true feelings, hoping that Martha and Nasjia will live well.