"Couples are different" still has a modern meaning
"The difference between husband and wife" still has a modern meaning, and some people dismiss "the difference between husband and wife" as a feudal "male superiority and female inferiority", which is actually a bias in understanding. In general, men are physically and psychologically stronger and stronger, while women are more docile and careful. There is a difference between men and women, men should exert male masculinity like men, and women should show women's gentle demeanor like women.
Today's world is plagued by family problems, and the rapid shrinking of the family, the surge in divorce rates and the disintegration of the family system have become common problems on a global scale. Emphasizing that the couple should be equal or equal in any aspect of the logic, in fact, can not bring a happy married life, can only make the family disintegrate, couples only mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual accommodation, one heart and one mind to build a happy home, in order to achieve this purpose must be different from the couple, mutual respect for each other's differences, strict distinction between the moral norms that each should abide by, only in this way can love last.
——Zhai Haichao, "A Feast of Thought", 065
