Live your life the way you like it
charles
Qian Zhongshu said, "Marriage is like a walled city, people inside want to come out, people outside want to go in." ”
Love is easy to get lost, especially women in legitimate love, will become more sensitive and more vulnerable, more inseparable from each other, do not know, this will only make the other party more and more distant from themselves.
Sharing the following points, I hope that everyone can have a sweet love at the same time, enjoy the beauty at the same time, and get growth.
1. Of all the ways to destroy a person, the most vicious, the cruelest, the darkest is to kill.
No matter how good a boy is to you, how many gifts you give, how many love words you say, and exaggerate you, you should also be aware of it, how many pounds you have, and you must know soberly.
Don't feel that your boyfriend is particularly good and special because of a few casual words, and you feel that your boyfriend must be inseparable from you.
What kind of person you are, you should know better than anyone.
2, like it or not, whether it is suitable, love or not, whether it can be together, whether it can get married, whether it can go to the end, this is six different things.
If you can tell the difference, you will save a lot of trouble.
Not all boys are worthy of your lifelong trust, not all love must have results, and not all people are together.
It is okay to take the initiative, but it must not be forced, it is okay to like it, but it must not be impulsive.
3, at any time, do not give up on improving yourself.
People who are better than you, work harder than you, live harder than you.
No matter how good you are now, with a stable job, a high salary, and good health, don't stop moving.
These are just the prerequisites for love, don't think that having a job is enough, how stable you are now, it is doomed to how poor you are in the future.
Promoting yourself is always more important than love and work, and your attraction will only last more and more if your value continues to expand.
4, good communication, good talk, will make your love more smooth.
Don't let others guess, and don't let him think about what's wrong.
You don't say it, the boy really doesn't know, guess more times, he will think that when you are unreasonable, you have nothing to do, instead of expanding the contradiction, it is better to sit down and speak out of your heart.
If a person always makes you guess and guess, think about how you feel, whether you feel like you are being fooled and played.
"Do not do to others what you do not want." In intimate relationships, it is even more important to pay attention to this.
5) Leave anyone and you can live well.
No matter how intimate the relationship is, we must learn to leave space for each other, and we must learn to give ourselves the opportunity to be independent.
Independence is not only on the economic level, your thoughts, life patterns, spirit should be independent, you have to be sure and firm - without anyone, you can be fine, and no one will always accompany you.
6, no one deserves you to give up your future.
Love yourself first, and then you can talk about loving or not loving others.
Don't give up your job because of love, don't give up your family because of love, don't give up yourself because of marriage, anyone and everything is not as important as yourself, your work, your ability, your family, is your most solid backing.
7, learn to see the good and receive
Two people together, there will inevitably be contradictions, there will be quarrels, under normal circumstances, boys will take the initiative to apologize, at this time, there are steps down, do not hold it all the time.
Girls in love, they all want to be protected and favored, but boys also need to be pampered.
A boy, because he loves you, put down his self-esteem and throws his hair down, apologizes to you, coaxes you to be happy, and girls must learn to accept it well, so as not to cause greater contradictions.
8, to cherish the boy who is willing to give you reasoning.
Reasoning takes time and thought, is tiring, and not necessarily useful. Buying gifts to coax you may be simple, but you must learn to cherish them compared to people who are willing to give you something more precious.
9. Be aware of AA
The payment of money is also part of the emotional management.
He can pay money when eating and dating, but you have to have the awareness of AA and consciously give it to him;
He doesn't give you gifts as you should, you have to learn to give back;
He also makes money very hard, if he pays for everything, you don't pay anything, and you never feel indebted, then how long is this relationship?
10, do not be too naïve, learn to be realistic
How much dowry is appropriate, when to have children, whether to live with parents, house savings, etc., after establishing a relationship for a period of time, you should ask clearly.
It's not a distant thing, nor is it putting pressure on the relationship, but a responsible attitude.
11, good feelings will definitely make you better
If a relationship makes you become neurotic, often run out, often doubt yourself, depressed mood, do not tangle, do not hesitate, decisively break up.
Some people are doomed to be inappropriate, leaving the wrong people in order to meet the right people and achieve a better self.
12, like it or not, whether it is suitable, whether it is love or not, whether it can be together, whether it can get married, whether it can go to the end, these are six different things.
Be sure to think clearly in your heart, so that you can avoid a lot of trouble.
13, the sense of security is given by yourself
If you yourself are incompetent, worthless, unattractive, no matter how much love he gives you, you will not feel secure.
Don't rely too much on him, and intimate relationships should also leave room for each other to grow.
14. Actively keep a distance from the opposite sex
After having a boyfriend, you must know how to take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex around you, whether it is a male classmate or a male colleague, or a male friend.
This is respect for each other, but also respect for yourself.
15, do not be lonely and wrong love
Don't feel that a person is lonely and lonely, just casually with someone you don't love, such behavior hurts others and hurts yourself.
Above all, encourage!
Every day, I am with you.
In your own way,
Live your life to the fullest, wish you and wish me.