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Compared with marriage, when in love, it can be blind, but when married, at least maintain seven points of rationality. Once a woman marries the wrong person, the happiness of the second half of her life is ruined.
When we are young, we always think that as long as we love each other enough, we can cross all the gaps and overcome all difficulties. In the face of marriage, there is love, it is not enough, marriage pays more attention to practical things.
Her parents strongly opposed Liu Jing's love, and Liu Jing was very fortunate that she had listened to her parents.
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Liu Jing was the only child in the family, and in her time, the family was almost always two or three children.
Liu Jing's mother has been in poor health, and the family's source of income depends on her father, who supports the family by doing farm work. After Liu Jing finished reading in junior high school, she didn't want to read anymore and wanted to work to reduce some burdens for her family.
The parents did not agree to their daughter dropping out of school early and asked Liu Jing to continue her studies, and Liu Jing did not read again after finishing high school.
Liu Jing went out to work, and she realized that it was much more difficult to make money than to study.
There was a new employee in the factory, his name was Yan Yu, 20 years old, dyed yellow hair, wearing earrings, always liked to smile crookedly, half of his body was tattooed, did not work for a few days, was criticized by the manager for not serious work, a hanging Lang Dang look.
The manager asked Liu Jing to teach Yan Yu to do things seriously.
Yan Yu was enthusiastic and cheerful, and soon became acquainted with Liu Jing, and also played with colleagues around him.
Liu Jing did not get along much with the opposite sex, and just happened to be in adolescence, she fell in love with Yan Yu.
The fate between people and people always comes quietly, and we can't hide from it. No matter what age a woman is in love with someone, she must let herself love slowly. Getting to know each other more is a disguised responsibility for yourself. Love in the period of hot love always makes people blind, impulsive, and makes people lose their rationality.
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Liu Jing and Yan Yu fell in love, and Liu Jing liked him very much.
Falling in love with Yan Yu, Liu Jing feels that her life has become colorful. Yan Yu would take her to the casino, take her to drink, take her to see her brother fight with others, Liu Jing knew that some of Yan Yu's behavior was wrong, but Yan Yu's prickly look, she was very fascinated.
After being in love for more than a year, Liu Jing wants to marry Yan Yu so that the two can stay together every day.
Yan Yu felt that Liu Jing's age was too young, and Liu Jing said, "I don't care, I just want to marry you and be with you for the rest of my life, and I want to take you to see your parents." ”
In this way, Liu Jing took Yan Yu to see her parents and saw the appearance of her daughter's boyfriend, and her parents were speechless for a while.
Mom said, "I'm against you being together, even if you love him very much, you have to wait until he matures before you think about getting married." ”
Dad said: "I don't see this man's sense of responsibility, self-motivation, career, you marry him, is to suffer, you break up as soon as possible." 」 ”
The love or marriage that parents oppose is justified, it may be that the other party's character is not good, or it may be that the other party's family has problems, or it may be that they do not like it. In short, since the parents have raised objections, the woman cannot be impulsive and ignore it, but must calm down and consider whether the reasons said by the parents are reasonable.
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Yan Yu and colleagues in the factory had a conflict, the two fought, Yan Yu picked up the stick and forgot to knock on the other's leg, the other party was seriously injured, Yan Yu was taken away by the police.
Even so, Liu Jing still vigorously defended Yan Yu in front of her parents. Her parents asked the two of them to break up, and they locked Up Liu Jing and made her reflect seriously.
Liu Jing finally listened to her parents, because her parents, who have always been gentle and enlightened, were particularly serious and strong this time. Since then, Liu Jing has never seen Yan Yu again, and Yan Yu has also been fired by the owner of the factory.
Four years later, Liu Jing still can't forget her first love, and one day she heard a colleague say: "XiaoJing, do you remember Yan Yu, the object of your good friend?" His family is not in the village two kilometers away, listen to my aunt said, he has been married for a year, and now there is a divorce, he abused his wife, but also cheated his wife and husband's money, that woman is really pitiful, sharing such a man. ”
Liu Jing smiled and did not speak, but she was also glad that the woman was not herself.
Before the marriage event, the only people who can sincerely consider women are their parents. When their parents strongly oppose it, women should not think that they are beating a mandarin duck with a stick. Parents are the ones who come over, and they know best that a family, one of them has a problem, and the other person's life will not be much better.
Author's Note:
Liu Jing has no experience in love, after falling in love, she becomes blind, which is not to blame Liu Jing, everyone has such a "young and crazy" time. When it comes to getting married, it is still necessary to listen to the ideas and suggestions of parents.
Only a small number of parents want to "sell" their daughters for money by getting married, and most parents hope that their daughters can be happy and happy. As a woman, when her love is opposed, she must learn to look at the problem rationally.
A man's character is important. Men are rich, character is not good, in the end it is difficult to retain their wealth, men are good-looking, virtue is not good, will also greatly reduce the appearance.
In the relationship, people who insist on going their own way will often be hurt by love very badly. You think you've found true love, you think you'll be happy for the rest of your life, it's just that you're wrong.
The core idea of this story is that when talking about marriage, knowing that the children will take a detour, the parents must pull it.
Sometimes, girls fall in love and ignore it, but this courage of disregarding it cannot be exchanged for the blessing of white-headed old kindness and love.
Especially yellow gambling poison, can not be dipped. Men who fight and fight, even more can not be touched. Therefore, if your own children fall in love with this kind of person, and parents have seen what will happen in the future, they must come forward to stop it and do not let the child misplace.
Some mistakes can be made, some mistakes, and once they are made, they have to pay a high price.
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