Yu Hua's "Alive", there is a sadness between the lines, the protagonist Fugui's initial life is the envy of many people, but when people reach middle age, their families fall in the middle, and their relatives die one after another, until finally they are only accompanied by an old cow.
This also shows that what you have when you are young is just a process, to see whether a person is blessed, but also more in the 50 years old, how many cards are left on their bodies.
Especially for a woman, 50 years old is actually the biggest watershed, if this age group can still have the 5 things that will be shared in this issue, you can basically see whether this woman has a good life or not, whether she is blessed. So what exactly is affecting the blessing, let's take a look at it together
Having a healthy body is the source of all blessings, as one of Lee Kai-fu's "Living to Die" says:
"I'm at the best of my life, I still have the aura of having been polished by Apple, Microsoft and Google, investors trust me, I have more than 50 million followers on Weibo... Everything is almost perfect!
However, fading the aura, I am just a breath in the moment will lose all the patients. ”
From this, it can be imagined that achievements such as Kai-Fu Lee can be, without physical capital, everything is in vain, we must understand that health is the foundation, if the foundation is not firm, high-rise buildings will collapse in an instant.
After reaching a certain age, the women who have the blessings are all full of spirit and enthusiasm, and this group of women has a self-discipline control over diet and exercise day after day at any time.
A broad mind is not the old saying that what is a loss is a blessing, and a loss is a blessing is not to make you blindly tolerate compromise, but to let the elderly people understand one thing more: don't be too attached to the past gains and losses, only those who can adjust their emotions in time and calmly face the difficulties, from the long-term perspective of life, these people are naturally more blessed than those who give in in the face of reality and are weak!
In addition, people who treat people well, are content and happy, eat a long and wise, and always have a grateful heart are more likely to meet the noble people in life, and they can also inadvertently become the nobles of others.
"Maxima often has, Bole is not often there", a noble person in life is not a symbol of blessing, noble people are not necessarily just people who bring you to promotion and wealth, perhaps you have not looked back to remember, because of your kindness, others are willing to comfort you when you are lost, and guide you when you are confused, are a blessing.
Now, the consumption trap is almost ubiquitous for the average person, and most people think that in just a few decades you should have fun in time, and of course it is the right argument to make yourself happy, but taking all your money out to consume is obviously not a rational decision.
With a certain amount of savings as an emergency, we can be more down-to-earth and feel at ease about the future.
Especially for women, even if the appearance is exquisite, life is more dashing, to understand that the red face is easy to age, only the savings in the hand can really bring themselves a sense of security, can take their fate into their own hands, can let themselves suffer some difficulties, still have the courage to face life, and support their choice of life to want the bottom line.
The best luxury for a woman is to have knowledge.
How much knowledge a person has determines how much happiness this person can have, and it is necessary to know that the more knowledgeable people in life, the more material they are in their hearts, and the more low-key and humble they are in their outward behavior.
As Master Hongyi said in the picture below, profound knowledge is not to conquer others, but to see one's own smallness, life is hurried like a white colt, and excellent and learned people can bring a peaceful and auspicious atmosphere at any time, which is the way to cultivate blessings and is one of the sources of blessings.
The reason why people are social people is because people need to get some source of happiness from others, even if they are strong and independent people, who does not want a pillow person who knows cold and knows heat, who does not want to have a warm family that lives in harmony.
And having a harmonious family is not only the most important part of our lives, but also the greatest backing for obtaining "blessings".
As the Buddha's Sutra says:
Cultivating blessings is always peaceful and happy, and it is easy to do a variety of things,
In this lifetime, one attains silence and then attains nirvana.
For women, more merit can be nirvana, especially after the age of 50, these merits will make life more like a tiger, free and brisk.
The content of this issue is over first, what supplementary discussion can be expressed in the comments, see you in the next issue! Every time I gain knowledge of becoming beautiful, I am in order to meet a better self.
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