When I got up early this morning, I saw that the door of the house was locked, and there was a red satin bag, which seemed to be wrapped in something, and I heard mourning in front of me, and I asked my mother-in-law what was going on?
The mother-in-law said that the mother of the Hong Guangyu family in front of me had died, so why did I hang this red satin upside down at my doorstep? There is no such custom in my mother's house.
I opened the door to look at the next few doors, all buckled this thing, I touched it with my hand, the red silk has a hard strip in it, and the mother-in-law said that it is a cake inside, which means that it is rising step by step.
I asked again, who hung this? How come there are a few on our side, and the people on the other side do not have ah.
The mother-in-law said that it was Hung by The Hong Guangyu family in the morning, so they hung a few on our side. The opposite side is not hanging.
Later, listening to the aunt next door, I learned that it was not Hong Guangyu's mother who died, it was Ye Long's wife who died, she had cancer last year, and she was discharged from the hospital on the 28th of The Month of La.
After breakfast, I went to the funeral with my father-in-law and husband, only to learn that Hong Guangyu's mother had died, and Ye Long's wife had also died, and after I returned from his house (Hong Guangyu), I found that there was also red silk hanging on the door of the opposite family.
Coincidentally, the two deceased people not only lived in the opposite door, but also died on the first day of the Chinese New Year, only three hours apart.
Because the first day of the first year of junior high school is too big, so it is hidden until the third day of the first day of today's first day to go to the ground (from bed to the ground), both of whom died of illness at the age of 80 and 71.
Because they are neighbors, both father-in-law and father-in-law have given a gift of 300 yuan.
It turned out that the red satin hanging at the door was that the deceased had to pass through our door on the day he went up the mountain, and he was not afraid that people would be unhappy, and hung up the meaning of "auspicious and happy", and when the deceased went up the mountain, we could take it down, generally throwing the trash can directly.
In fact, the customs and habits of the countryside also have their own reason, someone in the family has passed away, passing by the door of others, blowing a trumpet, sprinkling paper money, crying and crying, in order not to let others be taboo, hanging red silk satin for others, meaning auspicious and happy, this is also a kind of thinking from the perspective of others, for the sake of others.
