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"Mourn your parents, give birth to me." - "Shijing, Xiaoya, Tateshina"
Our country has been practicing family planning for many years, in the subconscious of many people, a family can only have one child, more children are to be fined or punished, but after 2015, the state gradually began to liberalize the family planning policy, many families can have two children. As soon as the policy came out, many families were eager to try, and many young couples had the idea of having a second child, but what people did not expect was that some elderly mothers of the grandmother generation actually wanted to run out to join in the fun, which caused widespread concern in society. Of course, many online melon-eating masses have a negative attitude towards this, but an elderly mother did not care about these objections, insisting on giving birth to her twins, so after so many years, what is the end of this elderly mother?
This elderly mother is called Sheng Hailin, is a doctor, when she was young, she gave birth to a daughter named Tingting, the family loved this girl very much, but unfortunately, an accident took Tingting's young life, Sheng Hailin and his wife were grief-stricken, washed their faces with tears all day, and could not accept the fact that their daughter died. Many years have passed, and the couple has gradually come out of the sadness of losing their beloved daughter and returned to normal life.
Because of the loneliness under the knees, Sheng Hailin is also a doctor, very good at adjusting her body, and they have the idea of having another child. Although both have far exceeded the optimal age for childbearing, they can still conceive through modern medical technology, but the risk is high, and it is very likely that both mother and child will die. Friends and relatives around her learned that Sheng Hailin had such dangerous thoughts, and they persuaded her to take care of her body and not to have too much obsession with raising children, but she resolutely did not listen, and must try to conceive and have children.
Through the IVF method, the doctor injected three fertilized embryos into Sheng Hailin's body, the operation was still very successful, in the following year, that is, in 2010, sheng Hailin, who was 60 years old, gave birth to twin daughters, becoming the oldest elderly mother in China at that time, and many people called it a medical miracle. The Sheng Hailin couple was very happy about the arrival of their two daughters, but at the same time, the high medical expenses also followed, and the twin daughters' physique was much worse than that of ordinary babies, and they needed to put more time in the incubator, which was a lot of expense, and they felt very difficult about it. Although both elderly people have pensions available, the cost of raising two children quickly costs them their pensions, and the family's quality of life seems stretched. In order to successfully raise their two daughters, the couple had to go out to earn money and earn some loose money to supplement expenses.
Now that so many years have passed, what has become of the life of the Sheng Hailin family? A reporter specifically went to interview her recent situation, she told reporters that now she and her husband are very busy at work, do not have the time and energy to take care of the children, so asked a nanny to help take care of it. Although the current life is not rich, it is still no problem to raise two children to grow up, and they will also pay attention to the maintenance of their bodies and strive to spend more years with their children.
Asked about the views of the elderly mother to give birth to the second child, she shook her head in a hurry, saying that this matter must be carefully considered, because the child is born to be responsible for him, which actually requires a lot of money and energy, the elderly couple still have to maintain their own body, do not add pressure, after all, their family is a very special situation.
The love of a parent's son will be far-reaching. Children are not tools, giving birth to children is not only to meet their own emotional needs, but also to create a good living environment for their children, so it is not worth being admired for having children at an advanced age, I hope that all parents in the world can rationally treat the big thing of having children!