How do people live with dignity when they are old? Is it better to live alone with a nanny, or to live with your children, the so-called sender under the fence? Old age is inherently a wolf

How do people live with dignity when they are old? Is it better to live alone with a nanny, or to live with your children, the so-called sender under the fence? Old age is already a mess, and it is really difficult to have dignity and filial piety to accompany children? Video of the troubled mother-in-law