Du Jiang's son, Hum, has always been known as the son of a national.
The second generation of stars in the entertainment industry we have long been strange, stars will not shy away from introducing their children to everyone to know, in case the children want to become stars in the future, it can also be regarded as the first month near the water tower.
Moreover, our expectations of the second generation of the star are also very high. After all, parents are stars, the appearance cannot be low, and the child's appearance naturally cannot be worse.
In fact, the innate resources of the second generation of stars are a double-edged sword
Your own light is easily buried
In today's entertainment industry, the examples of the second generation of stars choosing to step into the entertainment industry abound, perhaps from a young age to hear about the work of their parents, they have a strong interest, or perhaps they are born with the artistic cells of acting.
Whatever the reason, they will have the same title before they enter the industry, that is, the child of so-and-so star. Many seniors will look at the face of their parents and give their children a lot of high-quality resources. This can also be seen as an invisible pressure.
If the child's performance is very good, most people will feel that it is the credit of resources with inertial thinking. Little attention is paid to the child's own efforts and excellence.
If the child's performance is not satisfactory, the voice of external insults will naturally focus on the second generation of stars. No one cares what the real reason is.
Parents' resources can also be the culprits that can impede their children's development
When the parents' careers are small and successful, the resources they have will be enriched, and they will know big directors, big coffee, and even cross-border friends. These resources can naturally pave the way for children.
But at this time, many parents will have a certain preference, hope that the child will become what kind, will find relevant resources to help the child, will not seek the child's opinion, wishful thinking.
In this way, the child's development will be greatly hindered. But if you give up, you will not only disappoint your parents, but also start all over again, this contradiction is really irreplaceable.
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This common "pain" will be a little more sweet in the eyes of our ordinary people. After all, the feeling of coolness after the former planting trees is not something that can be felt casually.
However, to be fair, the life of the second generation of stars will definitely be happier for us, and their growth will be easier. After all, there is a big gap between the environment and the environment we are exposed to every day.
After reading the recent photos of Du Jiang's son, netizens summarized: the impact of the environment on children is indeed not small
Our understanding of Du Jiang's son should start from the variety show he participated in, and in the reality show, what is shown to us is a baby who seems to be humble and has no heart.
But in fact, what is reflected behind it is the perfect family education. Because he has a hundred percent sense of security, he can show his truest self to the outside world, and he does not have to disguise himself in order to please anyone.
It's like once in an interview, Hum broke a secret that had never been said before, that is, in kindergarten, the child gave him a nickname, called "navel eye".
When Huo Siyan heard his son state this matter, his eyes were a little red, full of pain for his son, seeing that the program was about to be cold, Du Jiang dissolved it with one sentence: When I was a child, I also had a nickname, called Navel Eye.
It is such a simple sentence that makes Hum smile immediately, and even likes his nickname very much, and no longer feels that he has been wronged.
Many times, it is that parents care too much about their children's grievances
When the child learns to walk when he is a child, he accidentally falls, and if the parent does not react at all, the child will not react, and they do not even know what pain is.
But if the parents panic, the child's reaction will be very large, in fact, they are sad not that they fell down and felt pain, but that the parents guided themselves, and they must cry when they fall.
Similarly, in the days to come, if parents can treat their children's setbacks and difficulties with a normal heart, the child's performance will not disappoint parents too much!
The same problem, converting different ways of expressing, the results are very different
In the process of educating children, the expression chosen by parents has a great impact on children. Just like in the face of the fact that Hum was nicknamed, if Du Jiang did not make a joke to resolve it, this matter would always leave a scar in Hum's heart. I felt that I had been wronged by heaven.
But it is precisely because Du Jiang has solved it in a different way, Hmmm will not think so, even if he hears someone call him this in the future, he will find it very interesting and not pay attention to it.
Today's Topic:
If you were Du Jiang, how would you solve this situation? Is there a better solution? Welcome to share with us!