Because of a variety show "Where Does Daddy Go", everyone recognized the cute, sensible and very good at taking care of his mother's little boy. Today, let's take a look at what kind of education methods can cultivate confident and responsible children like Hum.
Your encouragement is your trust in him/ her
In the program, Hum said to make a big meal for his mother, and as a result, he made ham sausage dipped in tomato sauce, Huo Siyan did not show any surprise and dissatisfaction, and took the ham sausage handed by his son and said thank you, while eating, he praised Hum Hum cooking delicious, and his eyes were full of appreciation and affirmation for the child.
At the same time, she told her son that she had never eaten ham sausage dipped in ketchup, and she boasted that she was very creative and could become a small inventor.
Although this is only a trivial matter, Huo Siyan still gives the child affirmation and encouragement, and carries out good guidance, Hum is slightly shy on the camera, but very happy to feed the mother to eat ham sausage, the mother with a smile, very much enjoy the child and their own warm interaction, the whole picture is very loving and warm.
Give them enough room to grow
There is also such a detail in the show. Hmmm thinks that the juice is fruit and water, so he soaked the blueberries in the water, thought it was juice, and couldn't wait to drink it. Huo Siyan did not stop, just observed his son's reaction on the side, Hmmm found that such "juice" has no taste, so he asked to take chopsticks to stir, Huo Siyan smiled slightly and handed the chopsticks to Hmmm, let Hmmm play freely, and finally Humming learned the true source of juice through exploration.
Huo Siyan said: "Whether he is right or wrong, I will not interrupt him, because I think this is a process of helping for the development of his imagination." ”
Respect and equality, love and freedom
Most parents in the process of educating their children, found that the child's cognition is wrong, will always rudely interrupt and stop, tell the TA, this is the right way, so the child only knows that this is correct, but does not know why it should be done.
The process of making juice is a process of searching for truth. We always ignore the children's innate interest in exploration, with their own inherent experience in teaching children, eager to pass on all the experience and methods to them, like walking, we always tell the child, where you should go, where the destination is, and the child does not know how to pass, so we want to let the child take a plane to the rocket speed of light to reach the end, but ignore how beautiful the scenery next to the road is.
The true education of love is not control or alienation, but respect and equality, love and freedom.
Only by adhering to this educational concept of love can we ensure that children establish their own values, standards and aesthetic attitudes for people, and can they raise a child who is full of love and freedom.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!