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A cute baby of about three years old was lying on the couch, her eyes were tightly fixed on the iPad in her hand, playing with the iPad intently, and the red envelopes he received during the New Year were all tucked into the pockets of his pants.
At this time, the mother quietly stepped forward and took the money from the child's pocket with two fingers, and the child did not feel at all because of the concentrated play of the game!
The mother said that the child had a total of 2400 yuan of pressure money, and the mother all went along, and the child always thought that his pressure money was lost!
Mom should think it was funny and interesting when she made this video, so she posted this video on the Internet, but she didn't expect this video to be directly on fire, with a total of more than 1,000 comments.
The comments of these netizens all feel that this mother is a bit excessive, which will make the child's young mind suffer a great blow!
The mother secretly takes the child's 2400 yuan red envelope, which will hurt the baby's young heart, netizens: sympathize with the child
★ A child's red envelope is a pure profit behavior
The red envelope of the child's New Year's money is a blessing from the elders to the younger generations, and the old age money is actually hoping that the younger generations will be healthy and healthy.
That is, the person to whom the red packet belongs is the child, not the parent.
★ Mom's behavior was like stealing
One of the netizens was commenting: Son, hey, 110? I have thieves at home!
Open guns are easy to hide, and family thieves are difficult to defend.
The mother may think that this is a funny behavior, and it is a funny behavior to quietly take the child's red envelope money away, but this behavior of adults causes harm to the interests of the child and the child's heart.
Really like the netizens said, it is simply stealing.
★ The child's heart is hurt
Children have always felt that their red envelopes have been accidentally dropped, to know that the children of the present day open their minds earlier, they know very early that money has a lot of roles, you can buy a variety of things.
All year round, he will get red envelopes of money through the New Year, which may be able to buy his favorite toys or clothes, and suddenly his red envelope money is gone, and he will feel that his whole hope has been disappointed.
Such a heart, such a thing, will make the child feel guilty, disappointed, and dissatisfied with himself.
One of the netizens said: When I was a child, I was also taken away from the red packet, I always thought it was lost, after more than 20 years I learned that it was taken by my father, and I thought about it for more than 20 years.
A simple action, a self-righteous action, will leave a scar in the child's heart and let the child remember for decades.
Therefore, when you do a lot of actions as a parent, you may have to stop and think about whether it is appropriate for you to make such actions.
Maybe you just think that joking or unconscious behavior is a trivial matter in the eyes of parents, and it becomes a big thing in the eyes of children.
As a parent, you must learn to protect your child's young mind!
During the Spring Festival, parents are prone to make several mistakes, affecting their children's hearts
Joke with your kids
Some may be jokes by parents themselves, and some are jokes by relatives and friends, and parents are indifferent.
For example, tell your child, where your mother has gone, and she doesn't want you. Or can you give me this dress, can you give me a bite of this apple, and so on.
It is to make some jokes with the child that the adults think are harmless, but what the child hears is what it is.
When you tell your child that your mother doesn't want him, he himself will be very scared and panicked, and when you say that you want her beautiful little coat, he will feel that his things will be taken away by you, he will not be able to rob you, and he will also be very panicked.
So don't joke with your child easily.
Secretly take away the child's red packet
Some parents may quietly change the amount in their children's red envelopes from large to small amounts after their children get the red packets, or even secretly take away the money inside and only give the children red envelopes.
After that, the child's red envelope was taken by the parents to return the red envelope to others, that is, the child prayed to the New Year and was lonely, which was actually traumatic to the child's heart.
Topic: When you were young, the red envelope was confiscated by your parents? Or did you take it yourself? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.
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