Plato mentions in the "Drinking Book" that the original man was spherical, and later Zeus split the man in half, and man spent his whole life searching for the other half to achieve the integrity of human nature.
Plato
All his life, people are also in the process of finding themselves!
People, always easy to fall in love, think that they have found the other half of their fate, think that they will be complete from now on, but as life continues, they are more and more suspicious of their choices.
Love is always as beautiful as a soap bubble in the sun
We are used to giving, we are used to forgetting ourselves
Traditional Chinese Virtues: The Word Sacrifice has far-reaching implications.
As small as the family, for the sake of the children, no matter how incompatible with each other's three views, or make up a lifetime, leaving regrets in vain.
The story of "Kong Rong Let Pear" is regarded as a model, and the spirit of "humility" and "sacrifice" has been instilled since childhood. Otherwise it is "selfish".
Hole melts to make pears
When I was a child, I was praised, and my parents would belittle it, deny it, and call it "modesty".
Parents use the way they feel "good for you" to decide what to learn for their children and what to do in the future for their children.
Parents use their own "thrifty" sacrifice method to provide for their children, and use their own "nothing" way to put time and energy on their children, so they hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.
Selflessness is actually a false proposition, and I prefer Zeng Guofan's "gathering the private interests of the people and achieving the merits of the world".
Romance starts with giving it to yourself
Man, is narcissistic, and the other half of what is truly perfect is actually the ego. Human energy is limited, and if time and energy are spent on others, just like the two ends of the scale, others need to give corresponding compensation, and the same is true for love.
Romance is the sense of ritual that you give yourself
Romance is nothing more than some sense of ritual in life. With tea tables, porcelain cups, fair cups, instead of insulated cups, the romance of drinking tea will be there. Replace instant coffee with a fully automatic coffee machine, and the ritual of drinking coffee will be there. Make a meal you like, choose your favorite plate, spread your favorite tablecloth, and the ritual of eating will have...
Romance is nothing more than some special day, a feeling of being loved.
On Valentine's Day, order yourself a bouquet of flowers early, buy yourself a box of delicious chocolates, or book a favorite restaurant for a candlelit dinner with your loved one.
Birthday, buy yourself a beloved gift, let your lover send a big red envelope to yourself, order a cake that you like to taste, and go to a movie for two people.
Simple things are always complicated, always looking at him left and right, hoping that others can have mind-reading and super-memory brains.
Love yourself, and there must be no shortage of romance in your life, because no one knows yourself better than you do.
Love yourself, your heart will be full of enough love, will not be excessively demanding outward, love is overflowing, we will give love to others without asking for return, because I have enough, others give, is extra love, others do not give, do not complain.
Loving yourself is the beginning of romance
From now on, love yourself a little more every day, welcome to share your love of yourself story in the comments section!