Mundane most
I saw a picture before and thought it was very representative. Take him for analysis.
The highest position is the rich, which simply means wanting to be rich. Everyone wants to have money, and with more money you can solve 99% of the problems. Most of us are plagued by this 99% problem. But having money is only a result in the end, and how you become rich is the key.
Traveling around the world, which ranks second in the back, is very interesting. Because traveling around the world is just spending money to enjoy, who won't spend money to enjoy?
Then combine the first and the second, and you will find that it is ironic: the desire of young people is to become rich and then spend money to enjoy life.
It may seem ordinary, but it is impossible to achieve. How do you get rich? When you go to travel after you have money, how to ensure that your industry and career are not damaged during your departure, etc., there are a lot of problems.
In short, the first and second you will feel very vain when you think about it, that is, you want to become rich, and then spend money to enjoy it.
The third is to buy a house and buy a car at least somewhat reliably, after all, money is now less and less valuable. Everyone is investing, and some people are doing real estate investment.
But the third problem of buying a house and buying a car is: where do you get the money to buy a house and a car. After all, buying a house and a car is only a goal, how do you achieve this goal?
Therefore, in the author's opinion: young people's desire to be rich first, to travel the world second, and to buy a house and a car third is not very realistic and landing. Because they are all some kind of goal, but you specifically lack the process of reaching that goal.
Fourth, it is very interesting to become a person who is useful to society. To put it bluntly: iron rice bowls and people who eat public meals can be divided into this category.
Although everyone is talking about equality at work and no discrimination, what they say and what they think in their hearts is exactly the same.
Fifth, the success of entrepreneurship, this is also easier to explain. It is to start a business and become rich, and then spend money to enjoy life. Compared with the first, second and third, at least this one you have already had the process of reaching this goal, and it is still a reliable point.
Sixth, having children. This is an answer with hidden conditions, because now it is certainly not okay to talk about having children without a house and a car, which is a hard condition.
Seventh, famous, this is also easier to understand. Ordinary people are not qualified to be famous, you must at least have some real skills, even if it is good looks. Famous, now the most is to start live streaming with goods.
As for why this is different?
You can't say that the people below don't want to have money, don't want to spend money to enjoy, don't want to buy a house and a car. They also want to, but at the same time they think, at least they know the way to achieve what they think. In contrast, the former, however, is not. When they think about their life aspirations, they count one step less than the former. You're thinking about how to be rich and enjoy it, and he's thinking about how to be rich.
Finally, to sum up:
Looking down from above, you will find that the desire is very vain, but there is an ultimate goal there, how to achieve that goal and so on. This part is the largest proportion.
Looking up from the bottom up, you will find that it is still real, at least there is a process over there. This part of the proportion is relatively small.
That's why I say that the ordinary is the majority, because most people's desire is really simple, they want to become rich, spend money to enjoy, buy a car and buy a house. But how to achieve this goal is a big problem.