I have always believed that a person's talent is a crucial condition for success, and there is a gene, the genes inherited from parents to their children are innate, parents generally what aspects are more prominent, children are most likely to inherit the aspects that parents are good at.
Yesterday, as soon as I opened the headlines, I was dominated by the name Gu Ailing, because I have always disliked watching the news, and I rarely watch the Olympic Games, and my only hobby is to brush the headlines, so I am quite unfamiliar with this name, seeing so many people write about her, I know that this girl is an Olympic champion.
Then I searched the headlines for the environment in which this 19-year-old genius girl grew up.
Only to learn that her grandparents, father and mother all graduated from a prestigious university, and her mother is still a venture capitalist.
Her parents and grandparents were higher than ordinary people in terms of IQ and emotional intelligence.
And this girl is still a mixed race, and the IQ of the general mixed race will be higher than that of many ordinary people.
Watching this girl react quickly and quite tactfully answer all kinds of tricky questions from the US media.
I was stunned by her eloquence and high IQ and emotional intelligence.
Sitting in front of thousands of spectators, facing the reporters, she could say that she was really humble and confident, answering all the questions would not offend any party, and showed her patriotism.
If I hadn't seen it with my own eyes and heard it with my own ears, I wouldn't have believed such a wise, high-emotional intelligence answer coming from the mouth of a 19-year-old girl.
So I think a child's success is inseparable from her environment, education, and talent.
So we ordinary people do not have to envy the success of other people's children, because our parents themselves are an ordinary person, ordinary IQ, ordinary emotional intelligence, ordinary economic environment, of course, can only create an ordinary child out.
So accept that your child is an ordinary person, and don't always compare the strengths of other people's children with the shortcomings of your own children.
I have always felt that I am an ordinary person, so I ask my children to grow up to be good character, have three views, have an ordinary job that can support themselves, and have a healthy, peaceful and happy life is my greatest happiness.
I saw many netizens on the Internet commenting on how other people's children can be so good at 19 years old, how about their own children?
In fact, these do not need to be compared at all, as the saying goes, the dragon gives birth to the dragon and the phoenix, and the child of the mouse will punch holes.
It is not so difficult to accept the ordinariness of your own children, of course, the success of other children can be admired.
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