Tell me about something I just heard about: A cousin's child of a colleague died when his wife died when she was just 6 years old. He was a father and a mother who pulled the eldest child, and then sent the child abroad to study and came back to stay on it

Tell me about something I just heard about: A cousin's child of a colleague died when his wife died when she was just 6 years old. He was a father and a mother who pulled the eldest child, and then sent the child to study abroad and came back to work in Shanghai and settle down.

In the first two years of colleague cousin heart attack surgery, this child is stunned is not back to work busy, or relatives stay outside the operating room, once a year back home, the purpose is to find the elderly to ask for money, only people give him his share, rarely see him pay. After getting married and having children, every time the daughter-in-law called home to talk about the difficulties of Shanghai's survival pressure and small children, so his father had to give them money again and again, and finally all the old bottoms were all paid out by the children. Not long ago, he fell ill again, and was hospitalized under the care of relatives, but unfortunately he left in less than a week. The son also rushed back from Shanghai after the old man left, and I don't know what is the significance of such raising children and preventing old age?