Married for five years, has not been pregnant, the man's parents even beat up for this, bluntly said that the daughter-in-law occupies the pit and does not. And my wife had no choice but to cry and complain, I am still a virgin, how to give birth to children for your family. So what's going on here?
The girl's name is Xiao Xie, this year is thirty-three years old, speaking of her marriage, Xiao Xie is full of grievances, married for nearly five years, but her husband has never touched her once, and even her first kiss is still there, let alone anything else.
This time the contradiction has been started, Xiao Xie and his mother's family and the tray out, the mother listened to Xiao Xie's encounter, shocked and shouted that the son-in-law Xiao Wang's family is cheating marriage, where did this come from?
It turned out that Xiao Xie and her husband Xiao Wang met through blind dates, and the two had no emotional basis, but what made Xiao Xie's mother unable to figure out how to figure out how to get along for five years, lonely men and widows were in the same room, how could the son-in-law Xiao Wang be able to "sit in the arms and not be chaotic", just because of this, in vain, he delayed his daughter's youth for five years, and also missed the best age of childbearing, which is how cruel it is to a woman. As the saying goes, long-term love, near the water tower platform first get the moon, is it the husband Xiao Wang who has another love, or the wife's rejection of heterosexual contact after marriage?
Xiao Xie said bluntly that in the countryside, a twenty-seven or eight-year-old girl can't get married, which is equivalent to what people say about eating their parents' meals, giving people a feeling that the family is ugly and can't be publicized, outsiders hear that whose daughter is twenty-seven or eight and has not yet married, they will think that either this daughter is ugly, or this family has other problems, in short, the reputation of the family will be ruined, and the parents will not be able to raise their heads in the village.
In this context, Xiao Xie was arranged by his parents to go on a blind date, five years ago, by chance, Xiao Wang and Xiao Xie met through a matchmaker blind date, when both were twenty-eight years old, and the two older unmarried people faced the same family problems and the pressure from their parents to urge marriage. It may be the same disease, or it may be panicked, the two after two simple dates to meet, they proposed to the parents of both sides of the intention to get married, the parents are naturally overjoyed, thinking that their children can finally form a family normal life.
In just fifteen days, the two meetings did not exceed three hours, and the two sides were already sitting at the mating table, which was particularly surprising that not only the children and daughters had a positive attitude, but also the parents of the two families were full of expectations for this marriage. But it was also such a flash marriage that came and went, ruining Xiao Xie's life.
Two months later, Xiao Xie had an incomparably beautiful vision of marriage and entered the palace of marriage with Xiao Wang.
If everything has a foreshadowing, Xiao Xie said that the first time she felt confused was at the wedding, when the rural customs liked to make a cave house, but also to do a variety of games, such as kissing or biting apples and the like, although she was shy but also able to accept, and her husband Xiao Wang did not accept it at all, the whole blackface, and finally left the wedding scene until the next day.
Xiao Xie spent the wedding night alone holding the quilt, and after marriage, this situation became more and more intense, how did he not think that the sweet life did not come as expected with the marriage, and the marriage life that waited for it was indeed a widowed marriage life.
For why she can endure for five years without hair, Xiao Xie explained that she mainly did not understand the situation at all, she has always believed that her husband is alienated from herself only because of her introverted and shy, she can take the initiative to impress her husband sooner or later, and she is married at an older age, and if she divorces, she will be talked about by the neighbors, after all, this kind of thing is difficult to talk about. I want to wait for my husband to slowly run in until I can live together as a normal husband and wife, but what Xiao Xie did not expect is that this wait is five years, and in the end, in addition to her husband's deception, it is the cold violence of her in-laws.
So why is the husband Xiao Wang so indifferent to his wife? Is there really something else hidden or what?
In the face of everyone's doubts, Xiao Wang said that in fact, this matter is easy to understand, the two do not have any emotional basis, and the marriage is only to cope with the parents of both sides. And after marriage, the two are more because of embarrassment and lack of communication, over time they have become accustomed to it, because of the working relationship, the two are also less and more, until now, the two face-to-face, the whole process is basically no language communication, and even the eyes are avoiding each other.
Xiao Xie said that he had made a lot of efforts for this marriage. Because there is no emotional basis, Xiao Xie also understands Xiao Wang's abnormal behavior in the early days of marriage, after all, he is also such an embarrassing mentality. However, for Xiao Xie's initiative to cultivate feelings, Xiao Wang showed rejection and impatience, and even directly buckled the headset to play the game, ignoring Xiao Xie's existence.
Xiao Xie continued to work hard, many attempts failed, she was devastated, and even began to listen to some superstitious doctrines, boiling soup and even asking God to ask The Buddha to find answers, five years of empty shell marriage life, caused great harm to Xiao Xie's spirit. She can't figure it out, she doesn't say that she has fallen into the country, but at least the appearance is passable, an ordinary girl, how to be so unpopular with her husband, she also has normal physiological needs, long-term depression and confusion, so that she begins to have symptoms of menopause prematurely, and even slowly becomes depressed and socially phobia.
In the end, Xiao Xie proposed a divorce to her husband Xiao Wang, and through negotiation, Xiao Wang paid Xiao Xie a "youth consolation fund" of 100,000 yuan, and this marriage without roots finally collapsed in a time and again indifference and helplessness.
In fact, in real life, this kind of marriage is not a case, sexless marriage in today's society has long been difficult to say "shame", the majority of female compatriots in the face of sexual cold violence, should be more active in the protection of their rights and interests, after all, a girl's five years of youth is priceless, you say?