Recently received a girl's submission after reading the heart is very uncomfortable, I really did not expect that in 2022 there will be a girl because of "premarital cohabitation" by the fiancé's family to grab the handle and borrow

Recently received a submission from a girl

It was very uncomfortable to read

I really didn't expect 2022

There will even be girls who live together before marriage.

And the fiancé family grabbed the handle

Take the opportunity to bargain for the bride price

Actually all the time

In the various submissions that everyone sent

The thing I scratch the most about the bride price is about the bride price

Because of the bride price problem

It's often not just a matter of this share of the money:

It is related to the amount of dowry,

The money is given to the parents or the small family

Who buys the car, the house is fully or the loan

Who pays the loan down and who pays back how much each month

What specifications are the wedding specifications for small couples, and what level is the honeymoon

The economic conditions of the two families, the customs of various places, and the face of the two families

And so on and so forth

In short, the things about the bride price are particularly complicated

Specific and specific analysis is required

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But today's problem is obvious

The girl's premarital troubles in the submission

In fact, it really has nothing to do with the bride price

The root of the problem is "cohabitation before marriage"

Let's take a look at the words of the future mother-in-law

It's really a hit the nail on the head

"You've both lived together for so long, it's not a price"

She lived with you before you got married

Not qualified to raise the value

Then we don't have to give too many bride price

It is right to lower the price as much as possible

"This matter is not good for the woman to say, not with whom else you can talk to"

So we took the handle

There was no other choice at the woman's home

"After a while they agreed, sooner or later they had to give in."

Anyway, she is iron-hearted to marry you

We'll just drag it out

Can this marriage still be yellow?

Sooner or later, their family had to agree

Let's think about it

The down payment in first-tier cities is less than a few million, right?

Otherwise, the girl's family would not have said that they planned to sell a few houses

Pay her a down payment on the matrimonial room

Look at it this way

The fiancé's family is really a good calculation

The bride price of 50,000 yuan walks around and returns to the hand

It is equivalent to marrying a daughter-in-law at 0 cost

He also made millions in vain

They have this reason

It's nothing more than "cohabitation before marriage"

This gives them a grip

Strive to marry a "cheap daughter-in-law"

The future mother-in-law's careful words

For a man who is bent on marrying him,

Also for girls who have a full down payment from their own family

It's literally

"What are the customs"

"I just think I'm not worth it"

After reading my fiancé's sentence "Got it"

She was looking back at herself and his 5 years of relationship

How uncomfortable it will be in my heart

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