Zheng Mei returned to Changde from other places and prepared to reunite with her son for the New Year, but what she did not expect was that her son avoided seeing her and did not answer the phone. In the face of such a result, Zheng Mei is sad, so what really happened between the mother and son?
Zheng Mei cried and complained that since her son proposed not to come with her, the phone could not be called, and Zheng Mei was very sad to think of her son who had raised him treat himself like this.
It is understood that Zheng Mei was an executive in a company in Guangdong when she was young, and although she had little success in her career, her marriage was bumpy and she has been living there since she went to Chongqing in 2008.
Zheng Mei had three marriages, and the eldest son, Chen Hao, was born to her and her first husband. After that marriage came to an end, Zheng Mei married far away to Chongqing, while Chen Hao stayed with her grandparents.
Now Chen Hao is doing stone business in Shenzhen and has a rich life. In the past few years, Zheng Mei would often contact her son, but not long ago, Chen Hao suddenly alienated her, did not contact or greet, and now she has to break off the mother-son relationship.
Zheng Mei brought the reporter to her mother's house, for the arrival of Zheng Mei, her parents and sister had a cold attitude, and the family was unwilling to disclose chen Hao's specific information, which made Zheng Mei look very embarrassed.
Zheng Mei told her family about the dilemma she encountered outside, but her sister did not react at all. What makes people wonder is what Zheng Mei did, and why did her family not have a good feeling for her?
At this moment, Chen Hao's cousin said something surprising. She described that over the years, Zheng Mei has been living in Chongqing, not only not filial piety to her parents, but often insulting her parents.
Mother Liu Lanying said that after her daughter divorced, she went to Guangdong to work, during which she met her second husband in Chongqing. Zheng Mei insisted on marrying away from Chongqing despite her family's opposition, and then had an accident, and when she was treated in the hospital, her husband suddenly chose to abandon her.
At that time, Zheng Mei suffered a great blow, and now that she is over fifty years old, she needs the help of her family, but why is her family indifferent to her?
In the face of questioning, the old mother Liu Lanying said the reason.
Liu Lanying described that after her daughter was abandoned by her husband in an accident, there was no one around to take care of her, and she went to Chongqing to take care of her for three months, but Zheng Mei was not friendly to her mother, but told her mother to let her roll.
Everything that happened at the beginning was seen by Chen Hao, who was only 17 years old at that time, so he would have some disgust for his mother. So why did Zheng Mei come back this time? Is it to reconcile with his son or is there another purpose?
Liu Lanying, an old mother, said that in fact, three years ago, her daughter had divorced, and after that she had no source of livelihood, so she began to use various means to seek help from her family. Because he did not take into account his son's feelings, the gap between mother and son became deeper and deeper.
At this moment, Zheng Mei's eldest nephew returned home, and he told reporters that Zheng Mei had a strong personality, was very clever in doing things, and everything she did had a purpose, and this time when she came back, she wanted Chen Hao to support her.
The next day, the reporter found Zheng Mei in the hotel. Surprisingly, she also has a child of about seven or eight years old by her side, what is going on?
Zheng Mei told reporters that she had three marriages, and after being abandoned by her second husband in 2009, she met her third husband, and the child in front of her was born to her third husband.
Just after she divorced her third husband, the family's attitude towards her changed dramatically. Zheng Mei said that she and her first husband were arranged marriages, at that time she was not satisfied, her husband often abused her, Chen Hao was the child she gave birth to with all her strength, and now she is so indifferent, she feels very wronged.
After divorcing her first husband, Zheng Mei took her son to the age of 5, and under the pressure of life, she entrusted her son to her parents, went out to work on her own, and only returned to visit her children in the New Year.
In any case, she thinks that she has not paid less for her son, but in exchange for her son's attitude, she is very aggrieved.
In order to understand the situation, the reporter found Chen Hao. Seeing his mother, Chen Hao coldly did not want to look at his mother, just at this time, Zheng Mei began to ask his son for money, what is going on?
According to Zheng Mei, she has a monthly retirement salary after retirement, but now there is a gap of 120,000 yuan in social security, and she hopes that her son can help her pay it off.
Faced with his mother's request, Chen Hao refused, saying that he only had a salary income of three or four thousand per month, and he could not come up with 100,000 yuan at all, and this was not the first time that his mother had asked for money from himself.
Because he has not yet started a family, he is trying to save money to marry his daughter-in-law next year, and his mother, who has not seen him for three years, asks himself for money as soon as they meet, does not understand his own hardships, and makes more demands.
Zheng Mei asked her son to tell his father that he sold the house to her to borrow money to pay social security, which made Chen Hao even more incomprehensible.
It is understood that Zheng Mei divorced when Chen Hao was 2 years old, and after that, the two sides broke off contact. Chen Hao's current house was purchased with the help of his father, and his mother not only did not contribute money, but now for his own social security, he actually asked his son to sell the marriage house.
Chen Hao said that she grew up with her grandparents and never felt maternal love for more than twenty years, although now her mother has returned, she directly sued Chen Hao to the court. However, when her mother got married for the second time, she directly concealed Chen Hao's existence, which made Chen Hao particularly angry.
The next day, Zheng Mei bought some fruit to visit her parents, and she hoped that her parents would come forward to help persuade her son. According to the old father, the grandson just talked about his girlfriend and was ready to get married, and Zheng Mei should not open her mouth at this time to ask for 100,000 yuan in alimony.
In the end, Zheng Mei reflected on her mistake, she decided to withdraw her appeal against her son, and also decided to reflect on her own behavior. The old couple is also very relieved to see it, because they are older and cannot mediate the contradiction between mother and son, but they will try their best to persuade their grandson.
After buying a ticket back to Chongqing, Zheng Mei commissioned a reporter to dial Chen Hao's phone. Zheng Mei apologized and reflected on her son on the phone, hoping that her son would also understand her pain, and she would come back to bless her when her son got married.
In the face of his mother's apology, Chen Hao always remained silent, although this moment came a little late, but it was still too late. There is still a long time in life, and I hope that the contradiction between mother and son can dissolve as soon as possible, after all, blood is thicker than water.
