Guo Ziyi with high emotional intelligence
Five thousand years in China, so many courtiers and famous generals, who has the highest emotional intelligence? Han Xin, who helped Liu Bang defeat Xiang Yu, Zhou Yafu, who quelled the "Rebellion of the Seven Kingdoms", and Lanling King, who was highly skilled? None of this is, they seem to be a repetition of historical tragedies. However, there was such a person who refused to let such a story happen to him, and he was Guo Ziyi, the chief hero of the Tang Dynasty to quell the "Anshi Rebellion". He used his soldiers like gods, killed countless enemies, saved the country more than 20 times with his body, and made great contributions to the Tang Dynasty. He is also the only Wu Zhuangyuan in Chinese history to have an official to the prime minister.
As the saying goes: the bird hides with its bow, and the rabbit cooks with a dead dog. Most of those who opened the history books and assisted the king in establishing immortal merits could not die well, with the exception of Guo Ziyi.
Guo Ziyi tried to put an end to the Anshi rebellion, and then defeated the combined forces of Tubo and Hui, pulling the Tang back from the brink of collapse twice in his life. What is even more precious is that he finally achieved a good death, and died at the age of eighty-four. When the bad news came, Emperor Dezong abolished the dynasty for five days, and issued a special edict praising the great achievements of Guo Ziyi's "Pillar Stone Four Dynasties", giving him the official Taishi, and having the honor of being buried with the emperor, relying on his high emotional intelligence of knowing the advance and retreat.
In 763, the 75-year-old veteran general Guo Ziyi quelled the Tubo rebellion and returned victorious. The Emperor promised him that whatever he wanted would be rewarded to him, and he said to the Emperor, "Your Majesty, please reward your subjects with 6 beautiful women!" The emperor was speechless for an instant, but Jun did not joke, and the next day he still sent 6 beautiful women to his palace. For a moment, the whole family was laughing at his old age.
In fact, this is Guo Ziyi's cleverness, and countless facts have proved that the worse the emperor's actual control, the stronger his dependence on his subordinates, and the higher the expectations. At the same time, the deeper the dependence, the easier it is to be suspected. He is now under one person, above ten thousand people, it seems to be glamorous, in fact, there are dangers, how can the emperor rest assured that this has a great general with high merit? Didn't Emperor Suzong of Tang depose his own military power several times before?
In getting along with the emperor, Guo Ziyi was smart. When he was framed and dismissed from his military post, he did not complain at all, no matter when, as long as the emperor's edict was issued, Guo Ziyi immediately went on the road, never explaining or resenting, the purpose was to reassure the emperor.
Not only that, Guo Ziyi handled the relationship with colleagues, enemies, and villains, and also showed his wisdom everywhere. The most important thing is the enemy and the villain, the emperor is actually very good at fooling, as long as he does not expose his ambitions, but the enemy villain does not care about these, like to catch the wind and shadow to retaliate, Guo Ziyi can make them even if they do not like themselves, they can not bear to harm themselves. The most exciting thing is that Guo Ziyi encountered a traitorous minister who was rare in the Tang Dynasty, Lu Qi, and he could still bear to talk and laugh with him. Lu Qi is also not to be underestimated, so many famous generals, planted in his hands a lot, Guo Ziyi is the number one target, but under Lu Qi's eyelids safe and sound, obedient?
Looking at his life, he did not hesitate to be born and died for jiangshan, but he always looked down on fame and fortune. This is a person who really lives through. No matter how high the position and no matter how heavy the power, Jiangshan is still the emperor's family after all, don't always think of stretching the rice spoon into the emperor's bowl. Isn't Han Xin, who is "more the merrier", ultimately discredited?
The most fundamental reason why Guo Ziyi survived the sinister political struggle and survived well is that the emotional intelligence is high.
For the emperor's world, he did not hesitate to do anything, and there was no non-division of thoughts. How could the emperor dislike such a minister?
