Don't use adult thinking to self-righteously speculate on children's inner thoughts, their world is not as complicated as adults. Talk to Dabao today. Grandpa came from his hometown in the afternoon. Dabao immediately returned

Don't use adult thinking to self-righteously speculate on children's inner thoughts, their world is not as complicated as adults.

Talk to Dabao today. Grandpa came from his hometown in the afternoon. Dabao immediately replied, "I think the fewer people in our family, the better."

Do you think that too many people are too noisy? Is it that one less adult is one less person to criticize her? Or do you think Grandpa hurts his brother and doesn't hurt her? ...... I had a lot of possibilities in my head, and I asked her, "Why do you think that?" ”

She was torn apart, and in the end she was reluctant to say. This made my curiosity even heavier, so I tempted her to say what she thought.

Finally she said sheepishly, "This is the same meaning I said two days ago about the fire." ”

It turned out that before the New Year, Dabao participated in the school's winter vacation safety knowledge online education course, always afraid of fire, and often said that the family would not be on fire during the New Year. The adults thought it was unlucky to tell her not to say it again, so there was this situation that she was willing to say just now.

"If there are few people in the family, if there is a fire, it is easier for us to escape all of them..."

Although the words did not reach the meaning, I still understood her meaning instantly. She felt that if there was a fire, if there were few people, they could escape, and this person would not be safe and the other person would not have time to escape.

Instantly a little touched!!