When two people are in conflict, one of the highest principles of getting along is that "we" are more important than any one of them, that one "you" and one "I" constitute "us," that "we" are systems, that systems are more important than individuals, and that both people should abide by such principles.
Sometimes we don't know how to deal with conflict and are unwilling to face it, so we often choose to endure. Patience does not solve the problem, but only postpones the flashpoint. Our subconscious mind will find opportunities to retaliate, so we often hear the words "I put up with you many times when others argue, this is too much" words. Every time you "endure", you will remember the account in your heart, and when you have saved enough, you will throw it all out at the expense of the relationship breakdown. In addition, "letting" can not solve the problem, it will only cause internal imbalance, and the next time will ask the other party to double the repayment.
——Li Zhongying's work "Li Zhongying's Marriage Psychology Lesson"
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