My wife died unexpectedly, I was sorting out my wife's jewelry that day, the phone suddenly rang, caller ID wife! I was startled, but I still couldn't help but scratch open the phone to answer, and it came over there

My wife died unexpectedly, I was sorting out my wife's jewelry that day, the phone suddenly rang, caller ID wife! I was startled, but I still couldn't help but open the phone to answer, and there was a woman's voice...

She said: "Hello, Teacher Xu's mobile phone is forgotten in my house, is she at home?" I'll send her over." ”

I don't know who this woman is, what her relationship is with my wife, or why my wife's hand is at her house. I asked her to give me an address and I said I'd go get it tomorrow.

I also did not tell her that Teacher Xu had passed away. After all, I don't know what kind of relationship they have, it may be Pingshui meeting, then there is no need to say.

Sent me an address and I plan to go tomorrow.

My name is Li Wei, I am 35 years old, I have been married for eight years, and I have a six-year-old son. My wife, Xu Aihua, is a primary school teacher, and her school is a key elementary school, so my wife is usually very busy.

I work in a public institution, usually work idle, but also can help take care of the family. My son has always been taken care of by my parents, originally discussed with my wife, this year I took my son back, unexpectedly, before my son returned, my wife died.

My wife and I have a very good relationship and rarely quarrel. So after my wife died, I was immersed in grief and didn't pay attention to where my wife's phone went.

After all, it is my wife's relic, I still want to take it back, by the way, to see the footprints of my wife's life. She was back in an accident at night riding an electric car. The address of this phone may be the last place she stayed. According to the address she gave me, I entered an area of private houses, which was really not easy to find. Looking at the house in front of me, I suspect I'm back decades. Low house, with its dilapidated windows, I knocked on the door and came out of a woman.

As soon as this woman opened the door, I was stunned, this is my first love, Xiaoqin. Xiaoqin let me into the house, and there was a child of about ten years old, standing on the ground. Xiaoqin said that this was her daughter, named Peach.

After we sat down, Xiaoqin took out a mobile phone, and I saw that it was indeed my wife's mobile phone. I asked Xiaoqin how she knew my wife, and Xiaoqin told me what had happened.

Xiaoqin is my first love, and I have a picture of me when I was studying, and I told my wife that this person was my first love. The relationship in high school was really pure and beautiful, and then I went to college, and Xiaoqin dropped out of school after some changes in the family.

In my freshman year, we were still in correspondence and I asked her to wait for me. By the third year, Xiaoqin was forced to get married by her family. Later, we lost contact, and after my parents came to the city, I had little chance to go back to my hometown in the county.

When Xiaoqin's daughter was four years old, she discovered a spinal deformity, which caused a herniation of the lumbar disc. Xiaoqin wants to treat her daughter, but Xiaoqin's husband does not agree, wants to have another son, and says that it is a daughter anyway, just like this, the older one will marry.

Xiaoqin was helpless to get divorced, and a person came to the city with her child for rehabilitation. For a while, life was particularly difficult, so I asked someone for the address of my house and went to my house to find me, hoping that I would help her. But I wasn't home that day, and my wife hosted her.

Since then, my wife has given Xiaoqin a thousand yuan a month in a living allowance and has time to come to teach her children.

Xiaoqin asked me, "Why didn't my sister-in-law come?" That day, she forgot her mobile phone after class and said that she was in a hurry to go home with you. ”

I said to Xiaoqin slowly, "She went back that day and had a car accident and died." ”

Xiaoqin did not react for half a day, and then she cried, and even Peach was lying on the bed crying. I comforted Xiaoqin, this matter is really not to blame Xiaoqin, can only say that the world is impermanent.

I asked Xiaoqin what her plans were. Xiaoqin sighed and said, "What can I do, now the child still can't sit for a long time, but it is much stronger than before." When your sister-in-law was there, she also said that she would help Xiaoqin ask about borrowing from their school. Sister-in-law is such a good person, they all blame us, it is our mother and mother who drag her down. ”

I thought about it and said, "I'll help you with school matters, but this house is not suitable for peach recuperation, it's too wet." ”

Xiaoqin said helplessly: "What can I do, the rent of this house is only 300 yuan a month, I work as an hourly worker in the hotel, two or three thousand yuan a month, and I have to treat the child." If it weren't for your sister-in-law helping me, I wouldn't have been able to hold on. ”

I couldn't bear it and said to Xiaoqin, "Or you can live in my house, my house is a three-room house, enough to live." Mainly children, such a humid environment, is not good for the recovery of children. ”

Xiaoqin said embarrassedly, "Is this good?" My sister-in-law has just passed away, and when I go to your house, others will gossip. ”

I thought about it and I said, "Well, my son is with my parents, and I go to live with my parents, and I say to the outside world that the house is rented to you." ”

I went home that day to discuss it with my parents, but my parents didn't have any opinions. It's just that my mother said, "Xiaoqin is a good boy, and you were also considered to have no luck in the beginning." In two years, if you want to remarry, consider xiaoqin, this child is not easy. ”

I said to my mother, "Let's talk about it later, I will help you now, but Aihua has just passed away, and even if I look for it again, it will be three years later." ”

Are you saying I'm right? When my lover died, I felt that I would have to look for it three years later.

@Invert hourglass

Hello. You are a sentient and righteous man, and your wife is also a kind person. I guess she didn't tell you about it, because she was afraid of affecting your husband and wife's feelings, after all, it was your first love. However, she still chose to help Xiaoqin's mother and daughter wholeheartedly, indicating that she had love and good thoughts in her heart.

As for how long it will take for the wife to remarry after she leaves, it will be a matter of opinion. Some people remarry after half a year, and some people never marry for life. You are still young, and you must look for it again, so you are right, and remarrying after three years is also a respect for the original wife.

How long will it take for you to remarry after you are widowed?