A girl of about seven or eight years old, tearing her heart and lungs, is crying, Mom, Mom, you don't want me, I want to go with you...
The child's mother also shed tears, but did not look back, and resolutely left.
Behind her, the daughter has been tearing her heart and lungs crying, rolling on the ground, and the father at first held the daughter hard, not letting the daughter chase her mother. After the child's mother walked far away in this car, he scattered the child. The child was still on the ground crying, rolling, shouting. The onlookers said everything, and some said that this woman was really cruel, turned her head and left, and did not even look at it.
Some people are also saying to see how to go sooner or later, long pain is not as good as short pain, it is better to go with a cruel heart, how can you take a child and find another object? How tired to live...............
This scene, presumably not to say, everyone can also know what it means, the girl's parents divorced, the girl was sentenced to her father, and her mother left.
Here, we do not condemn the mother of the child, maybe a woman who has no job, no financial ability, and cannot raise a daughter. Maybe the body is not allowed, for various reasons, we do not know the inside story.
However, I believe that any woman who has the ability, or loves children, will definitely take her daughter with her. Because after all, most women in the world will not give up their children, even if it is a divorce, even if it is any difficult situation, they want to take the child with them. Because, the child is the mother's heart meat, ah,
Here, I would like to talk about divorce, in fact, the current society, advocating, is also such a development, equality between men and women, not to mention equality between men and women, and even individual feminism. Speaking of marriage freedom, you can see that China's divorce rate is increasing every year. Can you be happy after a divorced day? Not necessarily.
Of course, not every couple can live happily without divorce.
Not every child is miserable after divorce.
But divorce hurts the children, there's no doubt about it. No matter what kind of situation divorce will hurt the child, divorce for the child he will not be happy, you see which child out of the door, happy to say, my parents finally divorced!
After divorce, the children of the family can hurt the child's heart more or less deeply or shallowly.
Parents with higher quality, after divorce, love their children together, and can arrange their children's life after divorce, and the children will not be hurt much.
And some children are not so lucky, after the divorce, the husband and wife life arrangement is not good, they each become a family, the child has a stepfather, or has a stepmother, the quality of life plummets, and even, miserable, the child has no choice.
In fact, every man or every woman's life after marriage is not happy, and it is not difficult to leave each other to pursue their own happiness, leave their current husband or wife, find someone to hurt themselves, or improve their lives. However, it is difficult to find a child who treats his own child like a biological parent without barriers, not without any, really very few.
Perhaps for this reason, 80% of chinese families that do not divorce are also staying together for the sake of their children.
Husband and wife feelings are weak, there is a responsibility in, the child health to raise the child, maybe the child will say, like you quarrel every day, it is better to divorce it, in fact, when he (she) said this sentence, they have grown up, bear the end of the separation of parents and mothers, but also understand the parents because of the pain of feelings are not together and support the parents to divorce, so that the harm to the child will not be so great, otherwise you see that the current divorce situation is the highest divorce rate after the child's college entrance examination, There must be some truth to it.
So whether the family is poor or rich, men, you have money for the sake of children, you don't provoke women outside. When the days are poor, women, you also for your own children, you insist on living, material conditions may not be, and the child husband is happy, you can also live a simple and gratifying life, after all, companionship is also a kind of happiness, isn't it? This effort will be rewarded in the future in the child's body, that is, the happy return that the child is not hurt and grows up happily and healthily. After all, the child's happiness and future, compared with your happiness, or the child is important, you say right?
