In Xinxiang, Henan, a man is ready to go out to work, and before leaving, he reluctantly bid farewell to his wife and 2-month-old baby, who knew that his wife was playing with his mobile phone, ignoring the man, and asked him to leave quickly.
When the man was preparing to leave with his suitcase, he couldn't help but look back at the child who was sleeping on the bed, and put the balloon tied to the side of the bed, and then said a few words of farewell to his wife. The wife turned her back to tell him to hurry up, but the man could clearly feel that his wife was in a bad mood, so he took the suitcase out the door.
After the woman saw her husband gone, she quickly put down the mobile phone and couldn't help but wipe her tears on the bed, and then the man also saw this scene in the monitoring, and couldn't help but be very sad but helpless.
Seeing this scene is very uncomfortable, let me can't help but think of myself in confinement, when I just gave birth to a child, my heart is very fragile, especially need someone to accompany, if the child's father is around, it can be much better, when the child's father took seven or eight days of paternity leave to rush to work in the field, when I left, I lay on the bed and said nothing to him without squeaking, as soon as I thought of him leaving, I was alone fiddling with the baby, and there were many poop in my hometown, and I felt very wronged in my heart, tears and flowers, But he didn't want him to know, chose to be silent, and finally he chose to go silently? After he left, he did not even return to the full moon of the child, so you can imagine the mood at that time. So I'm especially understanding of women.
This is the helplessness of young people, taking into account the family can not take care of work, take care of work, the family can only put aside. The man must also be reluctant to have his 2-month-old child, but he has to earn money to support his family, which is no way.
Some netizens commented that why not find a job near home, so that you can go home every night with your children, in fact, we all know that the wages near home are very low, there is no way to make a living, and young people will only have better development in big cities.
Some people say that it is completely possible to take the wife and children with them, which is indeed a good choice, but at home with children or wives, in the old family is more, women with children will not be so hard, there is a care for each other, and in the city is not the same, men go to work, women at home with children, eat and drink Lasa have to get, very hard and not easy.
If it is not a thousand burdens, who wants to be thousands of miles away from home, this is the heartache of the workers, but there must be a sacrifice, I think that when the wife and children need you the most, the best thing to do is to take them with you, rather than let them be left-behind women and left-behind children.
Although life will be bitter and the pressure will be greater when wives and children are around, the family is ultimately the happiest together, money can never be earned, and companionship is indispensable. Especially when the family needs it, the long time that the husband and wife are separated from each other will also affect the estrangement of the two people's feelings, especially after having children.
Finally, I sincerely hope that every man can bring his wife and children with him when he is away, so that they have a stable dependence, and if life is not allowed, he also hopes to be able to go home often, because you don't know how much his wife and children expect the family to be reunited. #Xinxiang headlines # #热点观察局新春季 #
