For Ye Haiyang, many netizens are already very familiar with her, she can be said to be a completely independent woman, not only has her own career, but also buys a sperm girl without marriage.
When Ye Haiyang made such a decision, almost everyone was very unoptimistic, after all, this kind of decision was really a bit out of line with the ideas of ordinary people.
However, Ye Haiyang not only succeeded in giving birth to a daughter, but also lived a very pleasant life with her daughter, which many people could not imagine.
And now, Ye Haiyang gave birth to a second child in the same way. For Ye Haiyang to have a second child, many people feel that Ye Haiyang should have a boy, so that Ye Haiyang can have a son and a daughter, such a family structure is relatively more perfect.
However, to everyone's surprise, Ye Haiyang's second child is still a little princess, that is to say, Ye Haiyang now has two daughters.
According to the exposed photos of the second treasure, this baby also has a relatively high appearance. But why would Ye Haiyang choose two daughters instead of a man and a woman? On this question, Ye Haiyang gave an unexpected answer: Dabao wanted a sister.
Seeing such a simple and straightforward reply, many people feel a little sloppy. However, this also highlights the rationality and objectivity of Ye Haiyang in parenting education, after all, there is no partner in Ye Haiyang's family structure, and the child's education, parenting and other issues are all done by Ye Haiyang alone, if Ye Haiyang's tutoring method is incorrect, then it will have a greater impact on the growth of children.
Single-parent families have 4 influences on children's growth, and parents should pay attention to them
Unlike Ye Haiyang, almost all single-parent families in the current society are caused by the disintegration of the original family, some because of divorce, some because of widowhood, etc., resulting in the existence of only one parent in the growth process of children, resulting in some growth defects.
Misleading the child's personality
Nowadays, there are many people in society who cannot be accepted by the public, such as "girly style" and "female man", and the reason why the personality of these people will produce such abnormal changes is actually related to family education.
Single-parent families, generally only father or mother, and fathers with children, whether the children are male or female, then the personality will be biased towards men, if it is a mother with children, then the children will be biased towards women.
Such an educational environment cannot allow children to correctly recognize their gender characteristics, which leads to some problems in the child's personality, such as boys becoming "mothers" and so on.
Let the child have a greater sense of inferiority
When a child is a child, there may not be a clear concept of single parents and parents, but when the child goes to school and gradually comes into contact with small groups and small societies, he will understand that a normal family structure needs to have both a father and a mother, and if the parents are incomplete, then their own family is incomplete. This will cause the child to have a feeling of being weaker than others, causing the child to be unable to clearly recognize his own abilities and feel that he is inferior to others.
It hinders the child's trust in feelings
This situation occurs mainly in families where two parents become single parents. The child first experiences the living environment of his parents, and later sees the process of his parents becoming single parents, so that he will think that feelings are untrustworthy. Because for children, the feelings between their parents should be the most solid feelings in the world, if this feeling can be easily broken, then any feelings in the world are not enough to believe.
Prematurely burden the child with the burden of the family
In a complete family structure, both the mother and the father are the economic builders of the family, so under normal circumstances, children only need to spend their childhood happily and study safely.
However, in the general single-parent family, there may often be some economic problems, the reason for the economic problems, one is because there is only one person who makes money, and the other is because the incompleteness of the family leads to the decadence of parents' emotions, which may affect work or form wrong values, resulting in faster family economic consumption, followed by economic problems.
As a child of a family member, he will naturally be affected by this situation and have to bear part of the family burden. The child's premature assumption of family burdens will seriously limit the child's development and affect the child's growth.
However, as far as the current situation is concerned, Ye Haiyang's children are not affected by these factors, which is mainly because Ye Haiyang's family environment is different from ordinary people:
Ye Haiyang has a successful career, and has strong economic strength and time freedom, and has the time and financial ability to take care of his children.
Ye Haiyang herself is "both a mother and a father", she deeply understands the impact that a single-parent family may have on the child, so in terms of education, it will not only let the child experience the fortitude of the father, but also let the child experience the tenderness of the mother, so that the child's personality will be on the right track.
After the child is born, it is a single-parent family, and in ordinary life, the child experiences full of love, and does not feel the separation of parents, quarrels, scolding and other scenes, so it will not be affected by feelings, personality, emotions and other aspects.
Ye Haiyang's single-parent family environment is created by her own initiative, and she is prepared, so she is more active and thoughtful in educating children, which is fundamentally different from those families whose parents have become single parents.
Therefore, it is not recommended that everyone learn from Ye Haiyang's experience, although independent women like Ye Haiyang will not have mother-in-law troubles, family disputes, etc., but the average person does not have the economic capital, time capital and thinking concepts that Ye Haiyang has, and blind learning may lead to family misfortune.
In short, for the public, it is still a normal family structure that is healthier for children's growth.
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