The single woman, Archimmi, tired of the various feelings in the city that have ended up with true and false, has recently fallen in love with a long-distance relationship. In her opinion, the benefits of long-distance love are really many: there is beauty, so two

The single woman, Archimmi, tired of the various feelings in the city that have ended up with true and false, has recently fallen in love with a long-distance relationship. In her opinion, the benefits of long-distance relationships are really many:

There is beauty, so two people always love the most perfect imaginary each other;

There is no need to have entanglements in reality, so the feelings are strong;

There is only one holy place of love, and when you think of it, you can go to worship without having to smoke and burn into real life.

Previously, she had talked about dozens of large and small relationships in Beijing. Some men rush to sleep with her at the first sight, and then end quickly; some seem to always be able to see all kinds of large and small problems, just like a certain type of bacteria can not be used with a magnifying glass to look too close, the more they look at the closer they are; some have no patience at all, and after three days of getting along, the problem is continuous: destroying a person's sense of solitude, he walks down from the altar of love, and it turns out that he is no different from the middle-aged uncle next door.

Same-city love is too fast, like the speed of mobile phone replacement. Here's the thing: Love happens to need to be slower to last.

So, Archimes began to fall in love with a long-distance relationship.

She recently talked to a netizen. The two people video and exchanged photos, and the internet was also a hot conversation. It's just a pity that one person in Nanning and one person in Beijing are hindered by both working hours and economic conditions, so although the feelings on the Internet are brewing like dry firewood, they still can't meet quickly.

Archimes thought that if they were in the same place, they would probably have been seen without restraint. For example, one night, unable to help himself, the flying car ran from Fengtai in Beijing to Changping, quickly turning dry firewood into reality.

And then what?

Then maybe it's all over. Love comes and goes quickly – and this is sometimes an unbreakable truth. Long-distance love deliberately slows down the love of the fast era, and then slowly ferments and dreams. One day, even if I really see it, it feels inappropriate in reality, but a long-distance relationship is like a long-term investor in stocks, it has invested so much, how can it be easily willing to give up?

Also, long-distance love has been fermented for too long, true and false have been faked, at this time, even if it is only too deep into the play, the average person likes to continue to act.

Another of Archimmi's friends, Sun Ya, recently went to Harbin, where she met a man. They stayed together for three days, like "The Dream of the Covered Bridge", and like "Love of Rodin Island" by Nicholas, the king of pure love, dreamy, mysterious, romantic, and passionate.

Three days are three days when you don't eat human fireworks.

Then she returned to Beijing. It's like accepting when you see it, and it's like an athlete retiring when he is at his peak, so that he can sing in the empty valley and make people reminisce endlessly. Sun Ya and the Harbin man were separated at the most romantic time. But it is precisely because of the separation that the three days of not eating human fireworks seem to have a different kind of literary beauty.

Then, her heart could no longer be at peace.

She and the Harbin man began to fall in love to death. She called him, sometimes wondering: If she wasn't around, would this man be loyal? Once in a while, when he didn't answer the phone, she began to think: What was he doing? Was there another woman with him?

This suspicion, uneasiness, and jealousy seemed to be a catalyst for passion, and she began to find herself more and more distracted, and missed each other more and more.

I have found that, like Archimy or Sun Ya, more and more women who are disappointed in love in the same city are turning their eyes on foreign countries. The human heart can no longer stop love from becoming faster, so there is only deliberate distance. In long-distance relationships, love returns to poetry and romance.

This seems to be the distance that people should have.

I suddenly found that the distance needed between people and people seemed to be getting closer and closer, but in fact it was getting farther and farther away. The same city is close, but the near ones are all enemies; the twin cities are too far away, but the far ones are all intimate and beautiful. A partner in the same city doesn't necessarily make you lonely; a partner across thousands of mountains and rivers doesn't necessarily make you lonely. As a kind of rebellion against the boredom of fast and near, long-distance love has its own beauty and poetry.

It's just, is his hometown really Taoyuan Township?

Apparently not either. In long-distance relationships, it seems to be more of an escape, because two people must carefully hide their respect for each other's privacy, and at the same time, in a kind of warmth, they also think in their hearts: Once they return to real life, can love still have a fertile and beautiful place? Once you live a fireworks life in reality, it seems that Uncle Zhang who wears big pants in the morning next door and Aunt Li who sells vegetables in the morning will eventually wear away too much poetry of love.

From this point of view, people who like long-distance lovers are better to say that they are just temporarily escaping in the dreamy gentle countryside, and no one knows how long they can hide.