In life, what a person will look like, not only to see his own attitude to life, but also to see who he is with, people will be affected by the environment, a good living environment, a good friend who will bring him a positive impact, will make him better and better.
On the contrary, if a person does not know how to choose an environment suitable for his own development, does not know how to make friends worth interacting with, he always puts himself under the dangerous wall, often walks by the river, often interacts with some people who are not worthy, and as a result, he often puts himself into some dangerous situations, and consumes too much of his feelings and energy for some people who are not worth interacting with.
You have lofty ambitions, want to get ahead, do a career, but you are gathered around a group of unmotivated fox friends, whenever you want to do something serious, they are either looking for you to eat and drink, or looking for you to play cards.
Or, they always pour cold water on you when you do things, hit your self-confidence, drag you back, add trouble to you, at this time, you will feel difficult to walk, mental pressure is very large, and finally a lot of things you want to do are not done well, over time, you begin to self-doubt, give up what you want to do, the result of your life path may be narrower and narrower, living a very bad life.
If you don't want to see such a result, you must understand that "those who are close to Zhu are red and close to ink are black", and you must know how to screen people who are worth interacting with, and who you are with is what life, don't believe it.
1. The other person will affect your field of vision.
In life, if you are surrounded by a group of short-sighted people, they sit in the well every day, do not want to make progress, never want to improve their cognition, did not want to get out of the information cocoon, and when interacting with you, she always imposes her own superficial cognition on you, so that you accept their cognition.
Although some of their cognition is wrong, and you are not allowed to question, the so-called "three people become a tiger", there are many people around you, they are likely to change your cognition, let you fall into a situation of self-doubt, which not only hits your judgment, but also affects your career.
To know that "summer worms can not speak ice", meet that kind of "three seasons of people", or avoid as soon as possible, because they will be blind, and impose their own cognition on you, instilling you with some wrong knowledge, which will affect your cognition and hit your judgment.
On the contrary, when you gather around a group of self-motivated, insightful people, chat with them, they will broaden your horizons, improve your cognition, you will learn a lot, at this time, you will grow up fast, your life path will go more and more smoothly.
2. The other person will affect your emotions.
People's emotions will affect each other.
When you are in a relationship with a cheerful optimist, even if you are sensitive and sentimental, you will feel "uncontrollable" every day because of small things, which makes you anxious.
When you gather around some optimists, their optimists, they always see the positive side of things, which will have a positive impact on your mood and your mood will often get better.
On the contrary, when you gather around a group of people who love to complain, love to calculate, and love to calculate, and live with these people, you will often be their "punching bag" and become the object of their emotional garbage.
If you meet a calculating person, you have some behavior that does not satisfy them, they will randomly rebuke you, say that you are not, embarrass you, at this time, you may be provoked, the emotions are affected by it, the temper may become grumpy, and your quality of life may become worse and worse, because the other party will affect your life.