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The most obvious manifestation of liking a person is that it will take the initiative on the other party, even if it does not get a response for the time being, it will not give up, because the process of paying is also a kind of enjoyment.
When you see that the other person is happy and happy, you will feel that what you do is worth it. For this reason, it has also been said that the most important point in distinguishing true love is whether it is willing to pay and does not ask for anything in return.
After all, true love has always been selfless, and being preoccupied can only mean that love is superficial, or not at all.
However, even the deepest love will have a deteriorating day, if a person no longer loves, then he will take back the initiative he once took, when you perceive it, there is no need to be stupid to pay.
Sometimes, there is no reason to love someone, and it is not love anymore, and the same is true.
One: No longer take the initiative to contact you, and no longer be so attentive to you
When a man loves you, he will inevitably take the initiative to contact you, he will go out of his way to message you every day, whether you will reply or not, he will keep sending. Because he wants you to know that he has you in his heart and is thinking about you all the time.
Without love, this enthusiasm is gone.
He no longer sends you WeChat every day, and unless there is something particularly important, he will leave you behind as if you don't exist.
At this time, you should be alert, maybe he has given more, and you have not responded, so he chose to give up; maybe he once loved you deeply, and then for some reason changed his mind.
Either way, you need to adjust your status in time and make the right choice.
Two: No longer take the initiative to care about you, no longer care so much about you
Loving a person will make you can't help but care for him, and if you don't love, this care doesn't exist. Everyone will only spend time and energy on the people they care about, and if they don't love, all the initiatives will be withdrawn.
When a man no longer actively cares about you, you should know that he doesn't love you that much anymore.
Maybe at the beginning, he won't simply admit it, he'll just tell you he's busy, but you won't believe it after a long time. He used to be very busy, but he wouldn't ignore you no matter how busy he was, but now he's like a changed person.
In fact, he has not changed, but his feelings for you have changed.
Three: No longer actively listen to you, he is indifferent to what happens to you
I've read a love story in romance novels: I have the greatest patience with you.
This sentence is probably a love sentence that women in the world are willing to listen to. Because of love, so will tolerate, so willing to listen to women say something inconsequential. And if there is no love, then no matter what the woman says, the man will always show impatience.
Ya Ling witnessed how her parents gradually changed from a model couple to a resentful couple.
When she was young, Yaling felt that she was the happiest child in the world, her parents were very loving, they had a lot of words every day, and she sometimes always felt that her mother was stupid and that many things could not be done well. Dad would just smile and tell Mom he was coming.
At this time, my mother would say to my father, "I really don't know what to do without you." And Dad showed a very useful expression for this sentence.
Later, I don't know when, My father's heart began to have someone else, and he was not so patient with his mother.
In the past, when my mother did something wrong, my father always said that it was okay, but now, if my mother didn't do anything well, my father would be a little angry and say: How can you do nothing well.
She often watched her mother hiding alone in the room crying, and even if she saw it, she would only pretend not to see it, or go straight out.
After a long time, my mother can do a lot of things well, but my father will still pick thorns, saying that this dish is not done well, and the sanitation of that place is not good.
When Yaling went to college, she persuaded her mother to divorce. From the beginning to the end, her mother never complained to her father, she was just sad and disappointed: "He was not like this before." ”
To love someone is to be willing to listen to all the nonsense and stupid words, and to tolerate the stupid things that the other party does.
If you don't love someone, then none of this is counted.
I have seen many women looking for death and life in love, and I have seen many women who have spent a lot of good years for love, and in the end they can only leave regrets in vain. In fact, many times, a woman's biggest mistake is to value love and lover too much, but not to value herself.
Voltaire once said: What makes us tired is not the distant mountains, but a grain of sand in the shoes.
If you really meet a man who does not love himself, don't hold on to the only hope left, and don't have to live in a long period of indifference, it is better to stop the loss in time, let yourself be free, and give yourself comfort.
After all, this road of life, women can not always wear shoes with sand to go on.
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