How to learn Gu Ailing's mother to cultivate genius? Presumably you've heard of it, but have you mastered the essence? Listen to me, I believe you will have a great harvest!
Some people say: Gu Ailing is a genius girl, because her mother Gu Yan is a legendary cattle man, and Gu Ailing eats the dividends of Sino-US education.
But I didn't want to pile up Gu Yan's glamorous experience. Because the descendants of the cattle are not necessarily good, such as Sheng Enyi, the son of Sheng Xuanhuai, the richest man in the Qing Dynasty, who committed suicide because he was poor and destitute; for example, Li Zhaohui, the son of the richest man in Shanxi, is now a dishonest old lai who evades debts. And Ren Zhengfei He Xiangjian Liu Qiangdong, the big guy who came out of the cold door!
Many people have also said that it is better to teach by example, but how to do it in the end?
First, care, this is what Gu Yan did not say, but many details reflected. If there is no love, children do not listen to their parents and even hate their parents, how can we talk about cultivating education? After Gu Ailing was born, Gu Ailing's mother paid great attention to taking care of and accompanying her, which is estimated to be the reason why Gu Ailing's learning experience and workplace were so brilliant before she was born, and there was no particularly big work achievement after Gu Ailing. Where your focus is, your grades are often there. The picture of Gu Ailing hugging Gu Ma after training, and talking about her grandmother's words, it is obvious that the relationship with her mother and grandmother is very harmonious and pleasant.
Second, do not exert pressure, let the children grow up happily. When Gu Ailing asked her mother whether I was a nerd or an athlete, Gu's answer was: You can be both. She did not force Gu Ailing to become a school bully, and did not force Gu Ailing to become a sports champion. She said: My education for Gu Ailing is first to sleep, second to study, and third to play. She also often tells Gu Ailing not to fight too hard, it is such a relaxed environment, so Gu Ailing can do Bai Yansong called on everyone to say: sleep for ten hours!
3. Guidance. Gu Ailing brought him to skiing when he was three years old, and later to horseback riding... Guide Gu Ailing to try more. Therefore, Gu Ailing not only learns well, but also excels in piano, dancing, basketball and other skills.
Fourth, role models. Although Gu Yan is very gentle in her speech, she is very strict with herself in her life, pursues perfection, and plays an exemplary role. Gu Ailing said that my mother is the best mother, which shows that Gu Yan has played a very good role model!
5. Support and encouragement. Gu Yan's support is characterized by excellent time management, planning the life process well, and carrying out gu Ailing with stuck points, such as Gu Ailing eating hamburgers in the cable car and writing homework on the car. The attitude is very gentle and the process is very strict. Excellent people, life is bound to be full! There is also a Gu Yan who is willing to pay for her daughter, often driving for several hours to take her daughter to skiing, often taking her daughter back and forth to Andu. Li Ning can become a gymnastics prince, a business tycoon, and the support of parents, coaches, and Li Jingwei is very important. Therefore, Li Ning was grateful enough to respect and treat Li Jingwei as a father.
Maybe we are not as outstanding as Gu Yan, not so good background resources, but we can learn from her excellent cultivation methods: love, happiness, role model guidance, encouragement and support. Even if you can't be an example in a certain skill, and set a good example in "three views, love to learn, and be strong", as long as you use this method, your children will become excellent people.