Last night, before going to bed, my child put a book on my desk, opened the recommended content, put the book in reverse, and reminded me again and again that I must read it.
Today, I took the time to read the content recommended by my child and found that I had recommended it once before. It is mainly about children doing things, writing homework and procrastinating, and how mothers do it.
The mother who has been at home full-time for many years has a little boy who is overwhelmed by housework and child care, and every day at home is the roar of Hedong lions. In order to avoid more unpleasantness, the little boy's mother chose to go to work, even if the little boy and his father objected to it. When the mother went to work, the father and the little boy were less urged and all kinds of nagging from the mother, and they were very uncomfortable with the days without the mother at home to take care of them.
Every day the little boy got up and no one called, no one called when the alarm clock rang, and the father and the little boy could not get up when the alarm clock rang. They were all in the water in the morning, and in the evening the little boy was sent to the custody class by his mother, and because of the frequent small talk, the two custody classes were returned.
Mom had to go to work and couldn't take care of the little boy more, and one day, the little boy's classmate, a little girl, came to the house to play.
The two mothers began to talk about the child, and the little boy's mother told the little girl's mother what had happened in the care class, and now she was distressed that no one was taking care of the little boy at work.
The little girl's mother let the little boy come to their house with the little girl every day after school, and the two children wrote their homework together.
Every day after school, the little girl's mother prepares a lot of delicious snacks for the children, and constantly praises the children, even if the homework is written slowly, in the form of encouragement. The two children were together, and slowly began to consciously write homework, and the habit of procrastination also improved a lot.
After reading this story, reflect on your communication with your child, sometimes in a hurried way.
Understand that the child is communicating with me in this way, she has a demand. I hope that my mother will improve the better parent-child relationship with each other through learning.
What the child wants to tell me is that I need my mother's sight, affirmation and praise, less nagging and urging. Let me see every bit of progress in my child.
After writing homework in the evening, I had a lot of happy communication, the child talked about what happened between school and classmates, and helped a classmate. Taking the child out to buy the gift she wanted showed her trust in the child. Take small steps forward, stop criticizing, and encourage any little bit of positive effort.
Focus on your child's strengths, don't pity, set chances of success, teach your child skills, and demonstrate what to do.
It means that the mother really likes the child, based on the child's interest, encouragement, encouragement, encouragement!
Raising children is a long process that requires patience and self-growth!