"Men should marry when women marry" is a traditional concept, especially as parents, if the children reach the age of marriage and do not find a partner, the heart is very anxious.
Worrying about missing the best age to marry is even more anxious, and if the children do not cooperate with the blind date, the parents will supervise. According to the analysis of relevant data, the marriage age of young people is gradually getting older, and the concept of parents is in conflict, so parents have begun to think of forcing their children to marry each other.
A video of a mother urging Ms. Liu to go on a blind date in Shangqiu, Henan Province, was filmed and sent to the Internet by her daughter, which attracted the attention of netizens, and many netizens left messages of support.
It turned out that Ms. Liu had two sisters in total, and they did not go on a blind date, and her mother was anxious in her eyes, so she warned the sisters.
The mother angrily told Ms. Liu:
If you two don't get engaged to the wedding this year, one person will pay me 2,000 yuan for living expenses, and I won't wait.
Afterwards the daughter explained:
Because the blind date did not go, my mother was very anxious, and then scolded me, I feel that I am still young, only 21 years old, you can wait.
It is reasonable to say that 21 years old can also go on a blind date, but now the daughter eats and wears at home without worry, and has been taken care of as a baby since childhood, so she is reluctant to leave home.
But as a parent, I think that if I am older, I can't find a good partner, so I let my daughter get engaged as soon as possible. There are many such parents.
Some netizens left a message: My father said that he couldn't find it in two years, don't go home for the New Year, that is to say, you can go home for the New Year. There are also netizens who leave a message: My mother said that when I found a partner this year, my father gave me ten thousand. My mom gave 5 thousand.
Marriage is not to get married with age, marriage is not in a hurry, only hope that the person who will marry in the future is right, must understand and then decide whether this person wants to live a lifetime?
As parents worried about the marriage of their daughters is also a normal phenomenon, parents also have a comparison psychology, seeing that the children of the neighbors around them have been engaged and married, worried about being laughed at by the neighbors around them, they urge their children to get married.
But you should not force your daughter to go on a blind date, her daughter has her own plans, and may also want to make a difference in her studies and career, which should also be considered as a parent.
In addition, the cost of marriage is now very large, and the pressure on children such as houses, cars, bride price, and three golds is not small. And now the number of divorces is increasing, resulting in some young people being afraid of marriage.
What do you think about this?