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During Zhou Rong's stay in France, Cai Xiaoguang insisted on a blank marriage for 12 years, but he also found 4 lovers.
Some people feel that Cai Xiaoguang has been very restrained, belonging to the "gentleman lustful, good and qualified"; some people therefore believe that Cai Xiaoguang is "guarded and unfaithful", and his private life is too absurd, and even his image of Zhou Rong's deep and infatuated love as always has been greatly reduced.
However, after carefully reading the original work again, I feel that he is still a good man who is obsessed, and his life like this is transparent enough!
01, keep and be unfaithful.
Sincerely, jinshi is open, this sentence is used in Cai Xiaoguang's pursuit of Zhou Rong, which is too appropriate.
From being used as a flower protector for a stand-in boyfriend, to a single middle-aged man who finally embraced a beautiful person, Cai Xiaoguang waited for nearly twenty years.
At that time, Zhou Rong was repeatedly betrayed by her poet husband Feng Huacheng, and in order to maintain her dignity, she resolutely divorced, and was extremely frustrated emotionally, so she remarried and married Cai Xiaoguang.
In fact, 38-year-old Zhou Rong, even if she has the blessing of beauty attributes, can only be said to be a divorced middle-aged woman with children who "still has charm".
But Cai Xiaoguang, who is also 38 years old, is not only single and unmarried, but also a drama director who became famous at that time, and his personal image is also very reasonable.
With his conditions and identity, it is entirely possible to find a younger and more beautiful actress as a wife.
However, from beginning to end, Cai Xiaoguang only had a deep affection for Zhou Rong, a crush, whether she was young and beautiful, or her beauty had been eroded by the years.
Even in the 12 years since Zhou Rong left, he is such a man who is often hated by some beautiful actresses, and his relationship with them has never been blameless and doubtful, which is indeed not easy.
He never hides his normal physiological needs as a man, but even if he is looking for a lover, he has his own principles, not the kind that sexual hunger and thirst do not refuse.
He laid down an iron law for his lower body:
Never have sex with a married woman, and never have sex with actresses.
The lovers he had found, three were divorced single women like Shutting Down, only one one-night stands were married women, and he was still the one who was seduced.
However, he never used those lovers as playthings and pastime, and there was a lot of respect and love to be given.
In fact, although he has always been single, he has never been a difficult household that lacks women's pursuit, even in the years when he was discouraged by his father's accident, the girl who actively pursued him has not broken the stubble.
And the woman who can make him work hard, work hard, and tie him to the death has always been Zhou Rong.
Even if he is already married and has children, it is estimated that he will divorce in order to become a husband and wife with zhou Rong, who is divorced.
In his own words:
"I belong to Zhou Rong... She is my literary enlightener. I have today, from the beginning of the love of reading literature, when her home was my Sanwei Bookstore, she and her brother Zhou Bingyi are like my private school Mr. We have long been spiritually connected, and we are inseparable spiritually. ”
What Cai Xiaoguang needs most spiritually is the kind of trait that only Zhou Rong has, and Zhou Rong is also the only woman who understands and can dilute the spiritual bitterness and loneliness with him.
Therefore, even if he insisted on "keeping and not being loyal" for 12 years, he had his own rules in the depths of his mind, and he could separate the spirit from the flesh, leaving no "sequelae".
Even the party Zhou Rong, it is difficult to accuse him of anything!
02, charm.
Of course, Cai Xiaoguang's love and obsession with Zhou Rong also comes with a bit of stupidity that many people, including Zhou Rong, can't understand.
The reason for this is the shadow she imprinted in his heart when he was a teenager:
"You were a great beauty!" There are many beautiful women in the world, there are too few beautiful women who love to read, and there are very few beautiful women who love to read and have independent opinions, and you are a treasure among beautiful women. I'm obsessed with treasures, and it's worth it. You influenced me and changed me. If I'm not lucky enough to know you, what will I be doing today? Staining my father's little limited light, being a division chief and deputy director, I am not the kind of man who thinks of treating officials as good, and being bad is not the same as fooling around in the official arena? How big an official can a fool be? Mixed to the deputy bureau level will definitely not be mixed up ah, how interesting is that? If I don't go down the business path, I don't like to deal with people who are full of business. If I hadn't known you, my life would have been just the first two paths to choose from. Thanks to knowing you, now that I'm a director, it's too hard to shoot my favorite subjects, but it's still something I like to do. ”
However, Cai Xiaoguang's personality charm is not only reflected in his feelings for Zhou Rong, but in his passion for literature and art but he has not completely become a political animal, thus living out more meaning of life.
Moreover, as a cadre who was once highly valued and suddenly "fell off the horse with an arrow", Cai Xiaoguang had heard about the officialdom since childhood, and was extremely skilled in being a person in the world.
He sees everything too openly and thoroughly, and he does not attach much importance to money and power.
"He acts in a principled manner, is measured in his conduct, can bend and stretch, knows what to do, is high-profile when it is time to be high-profile, and will never be unhurried when it is time to be low-key."
In the troupe, he is a cash cow supported by everyone, or a spiritual leader that everyone expects, and the backbone of the art is almost his nemesis.
In society, he is righteous and loose of wealth, has the elegant title of "righteous soldier" and the first-class reputation of enthusiasm, heavy feelings, morality, benevolence, honesty and reliability.
He considers himself a decent man, but the flow is not vulgar, the life is not smooth, always uphold his principle of "a gentleman loves money, and has a way to get it", not because of power, not for money kitsch.
I have to say that a man's charm can be cultivated by cultivating precipitation, and Cai Xiaoguang is like this.
Before, there was actually no place in him that could attract Zhou Rong, and Zhou Rong married him, on the one hand, she was hurt by Feng Huacheng's emotional needs, on the other hand, she wanted to repay him out of gratitude.
Speaking of which, they are a couple who first married and then fell in love, and long after marriage, Zhou Rong slowly found that he deserved his deep love:
Be kind, have an interesting life, and have an independent view of the world.
A man, who can have these three points, is already worth a woman falling in love with him, and Cai Xiaoguang has paid for Zhou Rong, which is definitely not more!
03, love house and U.
From the corners and corners of the original work, it can be found that Cai Xiaoguang has long been an indispensable member of the Zhou family.
After Zhou Rong left gao fei, even if his identity as a stand-in had been revealed, he was still putting himself in the shoes of Bingkun and Zhou Mu, who stayed in the city to live.
This kind of consideration is not only manifested in his care for Bingkun, but also in his meticulous efforts to help Bingkun to deploy work, not only taking care of Bingkun's work welfare and convenience, but also taking into account the needs of Zhou's mother, and considering it carefully.
After he and Zhou Rong married, he made up for Zhou Bingyi's absence in the Zhou family to a large extent.
Since his father's death, he had no relatives in the city, and he had always regarded everyone in the Zhou family, including the juniors, as his own family, and the Zhou family was busy with everything without complaint.
The sand and cement that Zhou Father had in mind were brought by Cai Xiaoguang to find someone to trust him; the roof of the Zhou family that was collapsed by snow was paid by Cai Xiaoguang to find someone to repair it; the ton of high-quality coal that solved Bingkun and his brothers' urgent needs was bought by Cai Xiaoguang; Zhou Nan had an accident, and it was Cai Xiaoguang who interrupted his work and took the initiative to accompany Zheng Juan to the United States to deal with the aftermath; even zhou Bingyi's own secretary lost his job, and he suggested going to his brother-in-law, Director Cai Xiaoguang...
Moreover, from Zhou Cong's words, it can be seen that during the 12 years that Bingkun was imprisoned, the one who helped Zheng Juan and Zhou Cong the most was not Zhou Bingyi' "pro" uncle, but Cai Xiaoguang, the "post" uncle.
Moreover, during that time, his aunt Zhou Rong was still in the process of going to France to find her daughter.
However, Cai Xiaoguang did not snub the Zhou family in the slightest.
When it was time to visit the prison and take Bingkun out of prison, he did not fall behind once, and even when no one expected it, he also intimately brought new clothes to Bingkun, who had just been released from prison.
And Zhou Bingyi, the pro-big brother, only went to see Bingkun a few times in the previous two years, and Bingkun was released from prison and returned home for a long time, and he only hurried to meet again after a gap of more than ten years.
He taught Bingkun to be grateful to Hao Dongmei and not to take her goodness for granted, after all, there are few sisters-in-law in the world who often visit their brother-in-law who is serving his sentence.
But the sister is gone, and she can often visit and take care of her brother-in-law in prison and his brother-in-law of his family and friends, which is actually rarer in the world, and it is more worthy of Bingkun's gratitude!
Of course, his original intention was still to love Wu and Wu, and for Zhou Rong's happiness, he repeatedly reminded himself that he should behave to the satisfaction of the Zhou family.
As a result, his "second son-in-law" made the Zhou family's own children feel ashamed, and almost completely exhausted the responsibilities and obligations of Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong's brothers and sisters.
Fortunately, all these hearts that Cai Xiaoguang for the Zhou family were seen by Zheng Juan, and under the huge mental blow, she also thought of bringing a gift for him to show her gratitude.
That hat, which was not expensive, was a very rich reward for Cai Xiaoguang, representing recognition and gratitude to him.
Of course, Cai Xiaoguang finally got the happy life he wanted: "The beauty is on the side, talking with each other very happily, hugging when you want, kissing when you want, if you are happy, why do you want your husband?" ”
Even though Zhou Rong's countenance was old and her brilliance was gone, Cai Xiaoguang still regarded her as a beautiful wife coaxing and loving, trying to make up for the gap of those 12 years to make her happy.
Therefore, he tried to create a happy and happy every day that the couple lived together, and the relationship and mentality of the two people in their sixties were like those of a young couple in their twenties and thirties.
Like the rest of the people in "The World", Cai Xiaoguang is not a perfect person, but in reality, he is still a man who can be met but not sought!
That's why I said that a woman like Zhou Rong is really lucky.
After going around for so many years, looking back, there is another man waiting willingly, this feeling is really good!
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