In the original work of "Mother-in-law Is Coming", He Lin and Liu Xiaoya are girlfriends, talking about everything, and the two people discuss the topic of marriage, share each other's experience, and spit on their evil mother-in-law together.
He Lin went to Wang Chuanzhi's house for the first time, worried about what gifts to bring, and aunt Yu Huaqing suggested that He Lin should not bring generous gifts, do not start to give this appetite to the habit, let He Lin bring some gifts.
He Lin felt that it was inappropriate, could not take it, consulted Liu Xiaoya, who was in the honeymoon period, and finally took a generous gift to Wang Chuanzhi's family, and also let Wang Chuanzhi's family see He Lin's wealth.
In fact, Liu Xiaoya's marriage with He Lin can be said to be the same disease, and they have made a fatal mistake, that is, they are overwhelmed by love, marry the wrong person, and fall into the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The same married to the wrong person, but in the original work, He Lin's ending is much better than Liu Xiaoya's.
After Liu Xiaoya married Fang Hongjun, she was tormented by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Fang Hongjun's mother was a single mother, taking her son as the whole of her life, no matter how Liu Xiaoya pleased her, in her eyes, Liu Xiaoya came to rob her son with her, that is, her enemy, therefore, she tried her best to bully Liu Xiaoya, embarrassed Liu Xiaoya, step by step forced Liu Xiaoya to the brink of collapse, and also framed Liu Xiaoya for having psychological problems, and sent Liu Xiaoya to a psychiatric hospital.
In the end, Liu Xiaoya completely collapsed, ran home from the hospital, had a big fight with her mother-in-law, and then jumped down from the 15th floor, ending her young life, if it were not for He Lin and another girlfriend, the evil mother-in-law also wanted to swallow most of the money was Liu Xiaoya's house, so that Liu Xiaoya's parents would not get a dime.
As for He Lin, her life was not much better than Liu Xiaoya's, and she also met the evil mother-in-law, and also met the in-laws who used her as a cash cow, and also suffered from depression.
However, He Lin was finally freed from the marriage that was worse than death, left Wang Chuanzhi, and took her daughter to a new life.
The reason why He Lin's ending is better than Liu Xiaoya's is only because he Lin has completely seen through the true face of the man and made up her mind to stop the loss in time, but Liu Xiaoya has always had hope for Fang Hongjun.
01. Liu Xiaoya loves Fang Hongjun to the bone, has hope for him, and does not dare to completely resist the evil mother-in-law.
Unlike He Lin's parents who approved of Wang Chuanzhi from the beginning (the original non-TV series), Liu Xiaoya's parents did not agree to the marriage at all, only because Fang Hongjun's mother did not accept Liu Xiaoya.
Although Liu Xiaoya's parents are not highly educated, do not earn much, and are honest and responsible, they understand the truth, they are very clear, if the man's mother, that is, the daughter's future mother-in-law, does not recognize her daughter, the daughter will definitely be wronged and uncomfortable when she marries, so they also oppose this marriage and do not want their daughter to be carried away by love.
However, Liu Xiaoya loved Fang Hongjun to the bone and had to marry him. In order to let her mother-in-law accept her, Liu Xiaoya paid for a house, took her mother-in-law to live with her, and handed in her salary card, and listened to her mother-in-law in everything.
The reason why Liu Xiaoya endured the evil mother-in-law again and again and was forced to the point of psychological collapse was because she had always loved Fang Hongjun, Wu and Wu, and in order to make Fang Hongjun not be bothered by the contradiction between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she swallowed her anger.
As Zhang Ailing's "Between Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law" said: "Women who love and care for their husbands are happy to submit to their mothers-in-law in order to make their husbands live properly." ”
However, does Fang Hongjun really love her? How did Fang Hongjun treat Liu Xiaoya?
Under the eaves of a roof, how his mother bullied his daughter-in-law, Fang Hongjun could not not see, if it was true love, he would let Liu Xiaoya be bullied and indifferent. When the evil mother-in-law bullied Liu Xiaoya and beat a rake, Fang Hongjun also moved his hand on Liu Xiaoya. Obviously, the mother's love complex is too heavy, but he listened to his mother's statement and sent his innocent wife to the hospital.
As Sheng Minglan said in "Knowing or Not": "The matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, in the final analysis, a husband and wife affair." If the husband's heart is like a mirror, there are not so many things. ”
When the man's attitude has been very clearly biased towards the mother-in-law, the woman no longer knows how to stop the loss in time, and it is definitely you who suffers the loss.
02. He Lin saw through Wang Chuanzhi's true face, did not hold out hope for him, and carefully planned to choose divorce.
He Lin chose to marry Wang Chuanzhi, also for love, and she also had great hopes for Wang Chuanzhi, and even married a small building.
However, not long after the marriage, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the relationship between relatives crushed He Lin, making He Lin feel breathless. At the beginning, He Lin also pinned her hopes on Wang Chuanzhi to solve the problem, hoping that Wang Chuanzhi would get his mother and family, but in Wang Chuanzhi's heart, blood relations were placed first, and his wife had to give way for her original family, which also completely disappointed He Lin.
He Jing was silent, in fact, she wanted to say to her sister: A man's thoughts and lifestyles may never change, but your path and life can be chosen again.
He Lin understood this truth, especially after becoming a mother, the mother-in-law's serious patriarchal thinking made it unbearable, for the sake of her daughter, for herself, He Lin decided to stop the loss in time.
He Lin took advantage of Wang Chuanzhi's love for his daughter's psychology, successfully returned his dowry, and took 500,000 IOUs to talk about things, forcing Wang Chuanzhi to give up the small house he bought with the joint property of the husband and wife, ready to give to his family, after getting the property, He Lin did not hesitate and left Wang Chuanzhi.
He Lin left Wang Chuanzhi, the attitude is very resolute, even if Wang Chuanzhi is soft, her family also persuaded her to consider carefully, He Lin still chose to stop the loss in time.
He Lin stopped the loss in time and regained a new life, her daughter no longer had to live in a patriarchal family, was disliked by her grandmother and other relatives, He Lin no longer had to take money to spend for Wang Chuanzhi's family, and she no longer had to endure the difficulties of the evil mother-in-law. And Liu Xiaoya did not know how to stop the loss in time, and eventually even lost her life.
03. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be reconciled, and it is inseparable from the incompetence of men, you either endure for a lifetime or go.
As Tu Lei said: People often say that since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and I agree with this sentence, but this sentence seems to have not been finished, that is, men are useless, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies.
You become a mother-in-law for a man, and how that man handles the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly affects your quality of life. Whether they are mothers or daughters-in-law, they must give face to the men they care about.
Mothers need to keep their affection and the quality of their old age, and daughters-in-law need to keep their marriage and happiness, so as long as men are willing to speak and uphold justice, they will not be too stiff.
As Yan Rujing said in "Strange Flowers": "Patience in marriage has a time limit, forbearance is called calm and calm for a while, forbearance for a lifetime, all depends on fate." ”
If your life is not so hard, and you don't want to wronged yourself, you must have the courage to stop the loss in time.
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