At the end of the winter vacation, the children who have been playing for two months are finally going to school! Parents can finally "catch their breath".
After two months of getting along day and night, I believe that many parents have found more or less problems in their children, such as: children are too passive in learning, can not be persistent? The school has officially started, still can't arrange your own time? Baby is too dependent on parents and lacks independence? When you get to school, you are worried that your child is not willing to make friends with his peers?
Today, Zhan Lujun will recommend 9 good parenting books to everyone to help teachers and parents understand their children better, understand more scientific and effective parenting methods, and grasp the concept of child development in the big picture.
1. "The Psychology of Crying and Lying Parenting"
This is a practical treasure book for interpreting children's daily psychological behavior in many ways, starting from the problem, guiding parents to identify the real needs hidden behind the child's behavior, find the root cause of the problem, and solve it in place at one time, not only to solve the parenting problems seen in front of them every day, but also to help them rebuild rational parenting ideas and enhance parenting wisdom. To solve the child's problem, first solve the parent's problem.
This is also a learning treasure book for novice parents, with 140 multiple choice questions, with questions and answers strung together in a unique way of writing the whole book to lead parents to read and think, thus deepening memory.
2. "How Children Learn"
In "How Children Learn", 3 world-renowned child development experts revealed the mystery of children's learning for the first time, with rich and creative experiments, the children's learning talents beyond adults are carefully displayed in front of you, from the understanding of others, cognitive things and learning language in detail explained the learning mechanism of children's brains, and analyzed the reasons behind them. Not only do we know how our children learn, but they also tell us exactly how they do it.
A great book for all parents and infant educators to be missed, and it also inspires the public to think deeply about the problem of human learning.
This book lets you understand that on the road to learning, adults are used to taking the big road, but children are masters of exploring shortcuts. In addition to providing guidance to parents and educators, it also provides a new perspective on how the general public learns.
3. "21 Tricks to Make Children Independent"
In the present, parents are always worried that their children are far behind by "other people's children", early education classes, English classes, school district rooms... It is the premise of everything to be eager to accumulate all the capital for the future, but to forget alone and learn to be independent.
True parenting is not about growing plants in a greenhouse, but about helping children build up their full personalities while teaching them to face the world alone. "21 Tricks, Let Children Be Independent" made my eyes shine, which not only extracted a complete system to help children establish independent capital, but also proposed a cutting-edge solution for the current social common parenting problems.
4. "Teach optimistic children"
The purpose of Teaching Optimistic Children is for parents, teachers, and the education system as a whole to teach children to learn optimism. This book differs from other parenting and self-improvement books in that it is not only theoretical and experimental, but also has some important advice on parenting issues. The rash opinions of some self-proclaimed experts have led many parents to change the way they raise their children based on fragile proofs, principles, and clinical assumptions.
"Teach optimistic children" completely changes this point, especially refuting pure positive education, pure encouragement education and self-esteem education, advocating the use of scientific and rational ABCDE rules to teach optimistic children.
5. "Let the Gifts Be Free"
Do you consider yourself gifted? What is your talent? How are you going to spend your life? In how to educate your own children? And how do you manage your company?
Finding your talent is crucial for you to understand yourself. Human beings are born with unique talents, but as their experience in the real world grows, people lose a lot of potential, and the main reason for this consequence is education, and we urgently need to launch a revolution in the field of education! This book will help you look at yourself from a different perspective and make you more aware of your talents and hobbies!
6. "How to make children conscious and active"
Scientific theory + specific method + scenario case + simple and easy-to-use tools + parent-child interactive comics, set scientific, practical, story, operable, interesting in one, in line with the scientific rules of efficient learning, through "asking, learning, practicing, understanding, using" to truly achieve efficient education.
"How to make children conscious and active" with 9 practical strategies, with efficient parent-child communication of the tricolor area diagram, as well as fun interactive parent-child comics, so that parents and children can easily cultivate an open brain, so that parents can confidently practice, so that children can confidently and actively meet future challenges.
7. "Marshmallow Experiment"
Are you: Unable to focus on one thing for a long time? Favorite items are always in mind, and you have to buy them immediately? Unable to control your own uneasiness and bringing your cherished partner on the verge of collapse? Weight loss is far from hopeless, can't get rid of the temptation of a good meal in front of you? Seriously procrastinating at work and still indulging in social networks and online games? Buy quick and sell quickly lead to frequent investment failures? This book tells you that self-control is not only a cultivatable ability, but also your own choice. Seeing the second marshmallow, self-control does not require effort.
Lack of self-control, even the smartest children are useless! Self-control is more important than IQ to affect a child's life, because even the most intelligent children have to take exams, eat less cotton candy, the best university is for you!
8. "How Children Think"
This is not a practical parenting encyclopedia. If you are curious about the spiritual life of the cute baby in front of you, then open this book and you will find a childhood world full of whimsy.
If you are a parent, this book will take you on a journey through your baby's spiritual world, making you more understanding of your child and how to get along with him. If you are a regular reader, this book will take you back to the long-forgotten childhood years and the fertile soil that has nourished our lives. And every adult who has been a child should not miss this book, because you will know the answer to "why am I" in the book.
9. "Parenting Rules for Highly Accomplished Children"
Nowadays, many college students have a blank heart when they graduate, and they have ideals and no direction. This is a hidden educational failure. The goal of education should not be to pursue "Di One", but to find the "Wei One" in children, and this book profoundly explains the true meaning of this education with a real life story.
Whether you come from a middle-class family, an ordinary family, or a poor family, whether you live in a rural area or a city, this set of parenting rules can be copied! As long as the parent can play these 8 parenting roles, the child's probability of success is higher; conversely, if the parent makes a serious mistake in any of these roles, or does not do it at all, the negative impact on the child may be very large.