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Ending song: Xin Xiaoqi - Comprehension
Do you have someone you love and can't?
Do you have a person who is clearly determined to forget, but who is soft-hearted as soon as he sees it?
Do you have a guy who desperately walked 99 steps and gave up near the finish line?
My old friend Tintin had it in his heart.
On New Year's Day, we had dinner together, and she mentioned the scene of the breakup a year ago, but she still couldn't help but blush.
I've seen how sweet it is between Tintin and her boyfriend.
From university to graduate school, a full seven years. She thought they were going to get married, but because of the wedding date and the bride price, she was scattered.
What makes her even more sad is not that she disagrees, but that when there is a disagreement, her boyfriend has not made the slightest effort for the relationship.
From beginning to end, Tintin was alone, fighting her parents, fighting her emotions, fighting all the past she was reluctant to say goodbye to.
And the boyfriend, always hiding behind, curled up, watching the war break out and pass.
Of course, the story ends with Tintin breaking up.
Tintin slowed down for more than half a year, and even when she was sad, she went downstairs to her boyfriend's house to see the lights in his room turn on and off, and at that moment, she felt that her youth was also ending in an instant.
At the dinner table, Tintin said that after the breakup, my life was very difficult, but I never expected that he would get married within half a year, very desperate.
He was such a timid person, but he kept moving forward, but I kept stopping where I was. I really hate myself, and I still haven't forgotten him.
I say:
"What you can't forget is not him, but yourself who has exhausted everything." His clothes, his accessories, his home ornaments, big and small things, are all bought by you, and maybe after him, you will never give everything you have to be nice to a person.
So, don't say you can't forget him, you just miss the self who fought for love. Because the more people who give, the harder it is to let go. ”
Tintin didn't speak, but I knew she figured it out.
In fact, there is not much truth in the matter of feelings, and the payment and output are never proportional, but you will always remember the mood of loving someone.
The first hug you give that person, the first coat you put on that person, and the long way you walk to buy his little dumplings when he's working overtime.
How cold it was at that time, how empty the streets were, and how full your heart was, these personal feelings, you will never forget.
Even if the person has gone far, you can't even remember what he looks like, but you are single-minded, you may not have a second time in your life.
It is very difficult to keep the long box, and it is becoming more and more difficult to move the heart, but the person you can't forget, he has already moved forward, why do you still cling to the past.
There was no point in nostalgic for the self who had tried so hard at that time.
You always feel that you can't let go of a person because you love him, but in fact, it is just your persistence and unwillingness.
Eason Chan has a song called "Falling Flowers and Flowing Water", in which the lyrics are particularly poignant:
Life, don't be too much fairytale, story, if it is shorter than this May sunset, there is no need to be surprised. If this trip is considered to be happy, it is also a life without failure.
Yes, although the ending is regrettable, but fortunately we have met before.
You don't have to think about it anymore, since each other has a given life, then learning to let go and let go is also a compulsory course for you to grow.
I know that one day in the future, when you dream back in the middle of the night, you may remember the hands you once held and the shoulder you leaned on, but you should have been glad that you did not waste your feelings, and you gave it with all your heart.
In the present day, although you are walking alone into the sea of people again, don't miss it anymore.
You should go forward like him, look forward, take care of yourself, and save your heart for the next encounter.
You will definitely meet the person who is worth your investment, and he will definitely cherish you.
Click [in the watch], the next time, the mountain is uncovered, the sea is unhindered, and there is no regret.
About author:Xiao Bei, founder of All the Way North Culture Media Co., Ltd., a well-known emotional anchor. Best-selling author, author of "This Fickle World Rarely Has You", "Meet Every You with a Story", and has a public account that accompanies you to say goodnight at 9:09 every night. I want to cure every lonely patient with sound and words. It's good that you're here. WeChat public number: Xiaobei (kuwoxiaobei) Weibo @ Xiaobei loves to eat meat.
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