After the first snow in various cities, more and more people regard "watching snow" as a very romantic thing.
The afterglow of the setting sun gives a temperature to the distant white expanse.
Many years ago, people also liked to have a wedding in the early snow of winter.
There will definitely be a song "The Most Romantic Thing" at the wedding.
In 1995, "The Most Romantic Thing" won the Taiwan Golden Melody Award for Best Chinese Song Lyricist Award.
Yang Yuying, Kwong Meiyun, Zhou Huajian, Zhang Zhilin and Mei Ting have all sung this song.
Some time ago, Qin Hao, the lead singer of the Good Sister Band, also described it as a "happy voice".
More romantic than the first snow is to hold your hand and accompany you to grow old slowly.
The song bears witness to all sorts of happy, romantic moments over the past 30 years.
But the person who sang this song experienced all kinds of misfortunes from birth.
A different "childhood"
Zhao Yonghua was born on May 19, 1967 in Taiwan.
Little Yonghua looks like her own mother, and her round little face makes people's hearts melt when they smile.
In the memory of her little head, the appearance of "home" was always changed back and forth.
It seems that everywhere is home, and it seems that no place is home.
When she was a little more sensible, she found that the children around her all had moms and dads, but she only had moms.
Little fingers tugged at Mom's white dress and asked, "Mommy, what about my dad?" ”
The mother looked into her daughter's sparkling eyes and didn't know how to open her mouth.
Before Zhao Yonghua was born, her father left her and her mother.
She didn't know what her father looked like, only that her surname was "Zhao".
Slowly, she was afraid that her mother would be upset, so she stopped mentioning it.
It is very hard for a single mother to carry a child, so when Zhao Yonghua was in elementary school, her mother found a stepfather for her.
The stepfather is a very humble person, very kind to Xiao Yonghua, and gives her fatherly love that she has never felt before.
At that time, the family of three had a relatively warm life, and her stepfather took care of her, provided her with school, and taught her the truth.
I thought that life would slowly get better like this, but as my stepfather changed his mind about his mother, something began to break.
A third person appeared between the mother and stepfather.
The three of them often went out to negotiate, and in the face of such complicated feelings, the mother finally chose to let go and did not want to entangle anymore, but she also fell ill from then on.
At the age of 19, her mother was already seriously ill, and her stepfather promised Zhao Yonghua's mother at the bedside that she would treat Yonghua as if she were his daughter.
Listening to the assurances of the stepfather, the mother left without regrets.
Since then, Zhao Yonghua and his two people who are not related by blood have become the closest relationship.
Two years after her mother's death, Zhao Yonghua also became the "over-aged flower child" of her stepfather and stepmother, witnessing their wedding.
In a childhood that is not much like ordinary children, Zhao Yonghua carefully glued to a short happiness in a broken life.
What healed her little heart, apart from her stepfather's love, was the only music she loved.
What heals the heart is music
At the age of ten, she joined the Taipei City Christian Children's Choir and began to learn vocal music.
Wing Wah, who has just entered elementary school, is very talented in singing.
While other children were still shaking their heads in the classroom and reading "Bright Moonlight Before Bed", she was already singing cartoon songs at the age of ten.
In 1977, he sang the well-known theme song of "Little Angel", and since then, he has recorded more than 20 cartoon song albums.
Obviously, there is a very good development, but because of the relationship of growing up in this special environment, Liu Yonghua had to start taking on the family early.
Female operators in electronics factories, laundromat girls, McDonald's aunts...
She hid her love and dream of music and ran on the long bridge of life, as if there was no end in sight.
In 1984, she began to sing in the folk song western restaurant, and her sweet temperament and voice allowed her to quickly accumulate some popularity.
At that time, Zhao Yonghua's singing voice was pure and clear, and she integrated the appearance of her inner desire for life into the song.
Singing a warm and beautiful song, inadvertently showing tenderness, exuding a full sense of happiness.
Soon, Chance held out his hand to her.
After graduating from the Technical College in 1988, Cho joined National Records.
Published his first solo album "Say More Words", a simple melody and a clear voice.
Among them, "Hey! Listen to my song "Never Tell You" is extremely popular, and it has also become the opening song and ending song of the "Golden Powder Family" Taiwanese series.
Five albums were released from 1989 to 1992, but they were all tepid.
Only the song "Thinking of You Every Day" makes her image of a little woman and her own sweet and magnetic voice circle countless fans.
During these four years, she also sang the theme song of the Washington Apple and Ford car commercial, the advertising song of Malaysia Airlines and the fanta soda advertisement song.
In 1993, he signed to Rolling Stone Records and released his seventh album, As Long As You Treat Me Better.
In 1994, she released her eighth and ninth albums "Marriage Proposal" and "My Love My Dream My Home", and a song "The Most Romantic Thing" became a classic work of Chinese love songs, which made her popular in the music scene.
"The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you..."
At that time, no one in the streets would not hum this song, and this song at the wedding became the groom's promise to the bride.
Everyone thought of the song as a vision of a better life in the future.
For the next five years, she went to PolyGon to host the radio program "Xiaohua Dangjia" on Tainan Fucheng Radio;
Participated in the performance of the screen performance class's ten-year drama "Peking Opera Revelation", and participated in the stage play as the heroine for the first time;
Held the first Christmas concert with Ren Xianqi on the same stage for the two of them, etc.
In 2005, she starred in "Mischievous Kiss" as Sister-in-law Ali (Naoki's mother), and her gentle and optimistic image once again infected countless audiences.
In 2007, he sang the episode "The Secret Hidden in the Smile" of the TV series "Mischievous 2 Kiss" and held his first concert.
She has been holding on to her musical dreams, but nothing seems to be going well.
Over the years, he has been diligent and earnest, and only one song "The Most Romantic Thing" has been outstanding.
And as unsmooth as her musical path, there are feelings.
The most "unromantic" life
17 years old is the best time for a girl.
It's like a flower budding, but it's faintly fragrant.
In 1984, zhao Yonghua met Zhou Huajian while singing in the folk song western restaurant.
This talented man attracts Zhao Yonghua, who has just opened his heart, all the time.
Zhou Huajian, who is in his twenties, always likes to wear a simple white shirt and look down and smile.
Play a guitar and sing love songs as moving as confessions.
At that time, Zhou Huajian already had her own family, and she could only hide this girl's throbbing in her heart.
In fairy tales, there is always a prince with deep feelings, and Zhou Huajian is a prince, but not Zhao Yonghua's.
In 1994, when Zhao Yonghua gently sang "The Most Romantic Thing", the man behind her was Li Zhengfan, the producer of the song.
At that time, Li Zhengfan had just ended his last marriage, and Zhao Yonghua was once considered the saboteur of his marriage.
The feelings are not easy to come by, and she also chooses to be silent, ignoring the disturbances of the outside world.
How romantic it is for two people to go from familiarity to mutual appreciation, making an album for a lover.
They opened a music studio together and were both working partners and lovers.
That time was the happiest time in life, and there was almost no room for solitude.
Liu Yonghua once said in an interview: "People should have the illusion of a sense of distance, and there is no self-space when they are familiar to the naked." ”
After a long time together, there are more contradictions, the personalities of the two people are very different, and Li Zhengfan is talented but also emotional.
Whenever the creative bottleneck is encountered, it will disappear for a period of time, leaving Zhao Yonghua alone at home all night.
"If he can't create it, he will run away, the record company will look for me, I can only say where he went, I don't know."
This made Zhao Yonghua, who likes a stable life, feel tormented, and after open communication, the pair finally broke up.
Maybe it was this relationship that made her tired, or maybe it was the yearning for love.
In 1997, Dai Gengji took a small dog he had raised and broke into Zhao Yonghua's heart.
Both people like puppies and have a common topic about music, and there were not many boys who pursued Zhao Yonghua at that time.
But it was Dai Gengji who made her heart move.
In 1999, the "921" earthquake in Taiwan made people more aware of the meaning of cherishing.
"Life is impermanent, I hope you can spend time with me in your lifetime..." Dai Gengji took out the letter on one knee, and Zhao Yonghua was moved to a mess.
On Christmas Day 2000, they secretly married.
Such a festival, the whole world is celebrating, as if to bless the love of these two people.
33-year-old Zhao Yonghua is still like a young girl, like romance and looking forward to life.
After marriage, they travel a lot, and it is good to be able to hold hands with their loved ones and travel all over the world.
Zhao Yonghua's mother, aunt and cousin all died of lung cancer, and then Zhao Yonghua's cancer index test proved that she was indeed a high-risk group.
Dai Gengji is considerate, and in order to take care of her diet, all kinds of steaming and frying are not a problem.
The story has reached here, as if someone in Zhao Yonghua's fairy tale has finally spoiled her as a "princess".
But a long life, Dai Gengji still failed to "slowly grow old" with her.
In May 2007, Taiwanese media photographed Dai Gengji dating a woman.
Dai Gengji has always been a shy person who does not like to talk much, and after a long silence that day, he replied: "Please forgive me, give me a little time, I will deal with all this." ”
Zhao Yonghua's heart was broken.
She was reluctant to leave him, nor was she willing to leave this warm home.
She pushed off her work and pushed off the concert to accompany him, trying to learn to cook his favorite dish...
But I still suffered from depression in anxiety.
It is difficult to reunite with the broken mirror, and this relationship is no longer pure.
In 2008, after serious consideration, she decided to divorce and complete the other party's love.
She said that no matter what the ending, I am very grateful for the company and love of my husband over the years.
You see, she was always so kind, quietly hiding her own pain, thinking about everything for others.
It's been too long, and the girl who sang "The Most Romantic Thing" at that time waited for love, waited for a lover.
At the age of 53, she did not wait for a person to grow old.
Zhao Yonghua, if you can turn back the clock, I hope you can love yourself a little more.
There are many more people in this world who love you, don't regret it.
As you put it, "It's also a romance to live a good life alone".
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