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The childbirth experience is a very special experience, only women who are about to give birth will worry, only women who have given birth can answer, many people only know that it is not easy to have a child, but they do not know how much disagreement.
For example, you may only hear of "opening two fingers", "opening four fingers", and "opening ten fingers" during childbirth, but you don't know what this means, or you don't know what the concept of opening ten fingers is.
Today we'll take a look at why it's so hard to have children.
Maybe you haven't seen the scene of childbirth, but you must have seen a newborn baby, such a large child, as light as four or five pounds, as heavy as seven or eight pounds, need to come out of the mother's body, cervical opening needs to gradually expand, at least expand to the size of the fetal head circumference, the fetus can be born smoothly.
This diameter width, about 10 cm. The so-called ten fingers or several fingers refer to the degree of cervical expansion, the width of one finger is about 1 cm, and the width of ten fingers is 10 cm.
After the pain comes, the cervical opening gradually opens, there will be a gradual expansion process, not directly to ten centimeters, not immediately need to enter the delivery room, usually after going to the hospital, the doctor will check the size of the uterine opening through the internal examination, the doctor uses the finger to estimate the expansion diameter during the internal examination, and tells the mother that it is now open to a few fingers.
We can reach out and put together a few fingers except the thumb, which is almost as wide as ten fingers.
Isn't it hard to imagine?
A female singer in Michigan once released a photo the size of a newborn's head, a wooden board, several circles in turn, from 1 cm to 10 cm in diameter, the largest one, it does look a little too big.
This photo resonated with thousands of mothers: "This is what the ten fingers of the palace mouth look like, so the mothers really deserve everything." ”
And when giving birth to a baby, the fetus is not the head out of the way. Generally speaking, the height of newborns is about 50 centimeters, that is to say, a "cylinder" with a diameter of about 10 centimeters and a length of about 50 centimeters needs to come out little by little...
Do you think that's the limit of having a baby?
In fact, from the moment you open two fingers, the pain is already unbearable!
But at this time can not enter the delivery room, some mothers in the stage of opening two fingers will stay for a long time, the doctor may ask the family to accompany the mother to climb the stairs outside, eat something, so that the uterine opening faster.
When the third finger is opened, many hospitals will let the mother into the delivery room, and the mother who can bear the opening of the second finger will also begin to feel pain at this time. But at this time, the doctor will ask the mother to maintain physical strength, because from three fingers to ten fingers, it may take 4-8 hours of pain.
Then there is the process from four fingers to seven fingers, at this time the pain is very high, every contraction can feel severe pain in the abdomen and back, many women describe, in this process of pain is blurred, every second is thinking, "I am not born"...
From eight fingers to ten fingers, the frequency of contractions increased significantly, basically 2-3 minutes to come once, each contraction time lasted about 1.5 minutes, the frequency of pain increased, the degree deepened, but to this stage means that the uterine mouth is about to open, the fetus can come out immediately, the mother needs to continue to insist, with breathing with force, you can also eat something, supplement your physical strength.
Wait until the uterine opening to ten fingers, the fetus begins to work hard to come out, if it is the first child, this stage will generally take between 30 minutes and 2 hours.
After the delivery of the fetus is not finished, the mother still has to experience the third stage of labor, that is, the delivery of the placenta, if the doctor during childbirth in order to prevent tearing and take a lateral incision, but also need to suture the wound at the end, many women say that the side incision wound suture when there is no need for anesthesia, because the whole person has been in pain to no consciousness, this little operation and the previous pain is simply not worth mentioning.
In addition, if the fetus is delivered, the placenta is not automatically discharged, but also need to peel the placenta by hand, yes, it is necessary for the doctor's hand to reach in, the birth of the placenta peeled off, brought out of the body, the experience of the mother, this pain is estimated to not want to remember.
Of course, women should not be afraid of this, because having children is indeed an instinct, everything will come naturally, it is not so easy, it is not so scary.
Fortunately, painless childbirth is now more and more popular, and more hospitals have the conditions for painless beating, so we can choose painless delivery when giving birth, although people with different constitutions feel different after playing painless, but compared with not playing, it is indeed much better.
As for some people who oppose when they hear that women want to beat painlessly, they don't need to listen to them, and if they can beat us, painless delivery will not affect the fetus.