A few days ago, a 2-year-old child with alopecia areata has attracted widespread attention. The cause of the child's hair loss is related to the mother's behavior.
Two-and-a-half-year-old babies actually lose a lot of hair.
2 and a half years old Dongdong lives with his parents in Shanghai, and recently, his mother found that her child's pillow was sticking a lot of lost hair.
After several nights of continuous observation, the mother found that the baby often slept at night sweating profusely and often woke up in the middle of the night. I thought it was the baby's calcium deficiency, so I quickly bought calcium supplement food for the child.
However, after half a month, the baby's symptoms of hair loss have not improved, and bald spots of different sizes have appeared on the top of the head.
Doctors diagnose your baby with alopecia areata
On November 9, the mother took the baby to the dermatology department of the hospital to see a doctor, and the deputy director Wu Jiyuan carefully examined and told Dongdong's mother that the child was suffering from alopecia areata. The results of the visit surprised both parents and doctors. According to Dr. Wu, most of the patients with baldness are young and middle-aged, and the current incidence trend has a tendency to be younger, and even some primary and secondary school students may get sick due to excessive learning pressure. But for a child as young as Dongdong, she had never been treated.
At the age of 2 and a half, he had to go to 5 Peiyou classes and was asked to "work hard"
During the consultation process, the doctor learned that in order for the baby to enter a better kindergarten in Shanghai next year, Dongdong's mother enrolled the child in 5 Peiyou classes to prepare for next year's kindergarten entrance examination. And, whenever the baby can't sit still a little, the mother will say to the baby: "You must work hard to get in." ”
Parents are also often anxious to sleep at night in order to enter the kindergarten, and the child itself receives the influence of parental anxiety, coupled with the learning pressure of various Peiyou classes, which is too much pressure on the baby and leads to hair loss.
There are signs of excessive stress in children
Your baby's emotional anxiety, or excessive stress, will actually have some signs:
1, the baby suddenly loses interest in external things
2, personality changes, especially usually especially sunny extroversion, suddenly become very irritable or muffled
3, resist going out to play
4, come to a strange place and insist on going home
5, sleep quality is not good at night, often crying and waking up or screaming in dreams
Everyone is under pressure, and parents are helpless, but in the face of increasingly fierce degree competition, how to achieve balance?
Kindergarten competition is a fact, and forcing children to learn to cause children to be anxious is also a fact, parents' anxiety affects children is also an indisputable fact, so in the face of triple contradictions, as a parent how to resolve it?
First of all, parents need to sort out their emotions. Take the opportunity to deal with your child's entrance exam with ease, and let yourself and your child have a good attitude to face.
Second, start from the child's interest to guide learning, rather than forcing learning. Infants and young children actually have a very strong curiosity, and interesting things can easily arouse children's curiosity and curiosity. Arouse the baby's interest in the corresponding subjects, and do learning as a fun thing, the effect is better than forcing the child to learn, and the baby's acceptance is better.
Third, respect the nature of children. Before the age of 3, most of the time is actually still eating and resting, learning to eat, toilet, dressing and other life skills, interest class study class, etc., can only be regarded as a plus rather than a mandatory option, if the child is interested in letting the child learn, but the baby is not interested and forced to learn, it is actually a kind of harm to the baby.