"I gave everything for my children", what is the subtext of the parents who say this?

Someone might say:

or:

(This freedom does not mean doing whatever you want,

Rather, it is a spiritual independence and freedom. ）

The following are the abilities of happiness:

If your happiness is established

The success, excellence, and glory of the child,

Only when the child behaves well,

You will make him feel your love,

If the child does not behave well, there is none,

That shows the spirit within you,

Not independent and free.

When your heart is not strong and free enough,

Then you have very little to contribute to the child.

Even though you feel like you've given everything for your kids.

What you call "love",

In fact, it is a kind of need to be appeased by the child,

cared for by the child,

The "desire" to be given alms by a child.

So

When you are not happy,

You are to the world,

To the people around you,

Giving too little love and contribution,

Even negative numbers.