Hao Dongmei in "The World of Man" was unable to have children because when she was a Zhiqing, she fell into the ice cellar during the menstrual holiday.
Husband Zhou Bingyi accepted the fact that Hao Dongmei could not have children, and the two still insisted on being together.
Zhou Bingyi was busy with his career, Hao Dongmei was busy with his career, one was a provincial and municipal leader, the other was an excellent director of obstetrics and gynecology, and the two people were also happy.
However, when people reach middle age, the desolation of no children is revealed. Among the concubines and sisters-in-law of the Zhou family, it is said that Hao Dongmei's family conditions are the best, and she never worries about life and money, but she is the most emaciated and aging fastest. Why? Because there is no expectation in the heart.
Middle-aged Hao Dongmei, the reason for the yin and yang mistakes, far away from the career he loved, his parents have passed away, looking at her husband who has been busy all day, Hao Dongmei has not grasped anything.
Parents still have a place in life, and parents only have a way to return to life.
Hao Dongmei, as a high-ranking cadre's child, has been living in her parents' high-end bungalow, Zhou Bingyi's work has been transferred several times, after the death of her father, Hao Dongmei has been accompanying her mother, her mother is her source, is her spiritual mentor, she is not too lonely.
However, with the death of her mother, Hao Dongmei moved out of the Western-style building and lived in the welfare house of the hospital, the house was much smaller than the original, but her heart was even more empty.
The feeling of being alone in an empty house is really too desolate, there is no anger in the family, only tropical fish that are also locked in the fish tank to accompany her.
At this time, her husband Zhou Bingyi was walking smoothly in his career, wanting the wind to be windy and rainy, and had strong energy to talk about work with young female subordinates day and night, and accepted the admiring eyes from female subordinates.
This made the lonely Hao Dongmei feel even more deeply in crisis, this life is too insecure. Although Zhou Bingyi accepted the fact that she could not have children, the two people also reached an agreement and went on like this.
However, things will develop and change, feelings will also change, and what remains unchanged is the fact that Hao Dongmei cannot have children.
Men can change their minds no matter how old they are and have the right to regret it, while women don't.
If Hao Dongmei had a child, no matter boys or girls, then her life would be a different story.
Husbands have successful careers, children are lovely, they have careers, some people hurt and some people love, this is a happy woman.
Children will bring hope to women, and children will make women full of expectations for life. It will make women feel that the effort and effort of this life is worth it.
Women who do not have expectations will feel that life is desolate and life is unfinished. It will not be so haggard and aging.
Zhou Bingyi is still a good man, if it is another man, people want to have children in middle age, they may choose to divorce and find children.
How desolate is a woman who has no children in middle age? Just look at Hao Dongmei's haggard in "The World of Man".
In a quarrel, Hao Dongmei finally broke out in a desperate way, her despair was unknown, and her pain tore her heart and lungs.
When you are young, two people rely on passion together, after marriage two people rely on struggle, and what do people rely on to maintain when they are middle-aged?
Women who are middle-aged without children are really too desolate.
Inability to have children, even the adoption of one is a kind of sustenance.