In the rules of our hometown, after February and the second dragon look up, this new year is completely over. This year, life is not good, nor bad, and the taste of the year is probably the most objective evaluation.
When I was young, the New Year was a thing to look forward to. At that time, only in the New Year could we eat well and dress well, could we not work, could we not be disciplined, could we not study, and could we play unscrupulously. Carefree is the greatest joy.
I don't know when it started, but it feels like the New Year is a very helpless thing. Visiting relatives and friends, welcoming and sending off, catering to various scenes, taking care of various emotions, combing through various contradictions, and resolving various problems. I don't live like myself, empty and tired.
In recent years, it feels like the New Year is not a happy thing. It seems that as soon as the New Year comes, there will be mixed feelings, and it will be depressed, as if hiding in an isolated island. Just like the song in "The End of My Life": vulgar tasteless, elegant frivolity, I am empty-handed, but my heart is heavy.
There are social reasons for this, and there are more reasons for it. There are material reasons for this, and there are more spiritual reasons for this.
The year is still that year, but we are no longer the original us!
Years later, a friend came to visit, there was some anxiety, there was also some wandering, felt that he was useless, felt that his ability could not control life, and life could not find an exit and direction.
In the eyes of many people, this friend has been very successful, and the business is doing well. I said to my friend: Your anxiety stems from the fact that your thinking has advanced too fast and has been at the high end, but your behavior has lagged behind. Your anxiety is that you recognize some value, but you don't have enough courage to go on.
If a person reaches a certain level, happiness is not about getting, but about giving. A person's achievement is not in how many people you have overcome, but how many people you have helped.
At this moment, firecrackers are still exploding, far and near, fireworks are still blooming, high and low, but the taste of the year has gradually drifted away.
"The new day is imminent, and the old day is still dragging its heavy clothes."