In the past, there was basically no concept of advanced maternal age, which should be related to the physical state of people at that time. At that time, women often worked in the fields, so their physical strength was high. And at that time, there was no family planning, if there were many children in the family, they could also help the family to work, and the new labor force was added. Now it is different, and now after the age of 35, it is an advanced maternal age.
Now with the two-child, three-child policy, many women have the idea of having children. The same is the birth of a second child, born before the age of 35 and after the age of 35, the pregnancy period and postpartum state are very different. Therefore, female friends who want to have a second child should still give birth as soon as possible, which is good for both the baby and themselves.
If the maternal age is before the age of 35, the general obstetric examination is a simplified process, and after the maternal age is 35 years old, the doctor will note on the case, the elderly woman, or indicate that it is a high-risk pregnancy. Many women are also unconvinced, 35 years old is not even middle-aged, but thus become an elderly mother.
It is true that 35 years old is not old, but at the age of pregnancy, it is more than old. Overage here is mainly reproductive age. In other words, the risk of having a child after this age increases. In the past, medical conditions were not developed, and many pregnancy diseases could not be checked, but now it is different. For example, in the past, Down syndrome was not easy to detect. It has now been medically proven that the older the woman is, the greater the risk of a child getting Down syndrome increases significantly.
In addition to pregnancy, after the completion of childbirth, women who give birth before the age of 35, whether by caesarean section or vaginal birth, will be more likely to recover physically. Mothers who give birth to children after the age of 35 are more difficult to recover physically.
In fact, many female friends have ideas about having a second child. Dabao has slowly grown up, and the time and effort that needs to be spent on him now is not as much as before, and the whole world revolves around him. At the same time, because Dabao is the only baby in the family, he consciously thinks that he is the boss of the family and has an arrogant personality. In the long run, it is not a good thing.
Sheng Erbao also has certain economic conditions and is fully capable of bearing the life of Erbao. Not only can it accompany Dabao, but it can also make Dabao have one more relative, and in the future, there will be one more to rely on in this world. There are many people who are now in their 80s and 90s, and this generation is too hard, facing the problem of old-age care and children. Do not want the child to go their own old way, want the child to have more relatives to accompany, the future pension problem can also be shared, therefore, the desire to have the second treasure is still very strong.
Although I want to have a second child, I want to give up when I think of my age. After all, she is not far from the age of 35, or by the age of 35, she is already a properly advanced maternal age. If you have a child, it is not good for yourself and your child. Such fears are not unreasonable.
Having a child at the age of 35 is not only an indicator of age. Although age has an effect on pregnancy, it is not the only factor. If you don't have bad habits, pay attention to eating a healthy diet and keep your weight in the normal range. There are no bad habits of smoking, drinking alcohol. If you exercise regularly, the likelihood of a high-risk pregnancy will be significantly reduced. If you have children, 35 years old is not the biggest problem, but living habits are more important.
In addition, medical technology has been developed now, which will greatly reduce the difficulty of pregnancy and childbirth. If you want to have a child at this age, even if it is difficult to get pregnant, there are many other ways, such as ivory tubes, which can also be pregnant. The way to give birth to a child will also be due to the situation of the mother, many choices, such as caesarean section, natural delivery, painless delivery and so on.
For elderly mothers, it is actually good for the baby. The 35-year-old mother's personality has become stable. This kind of mother is more tolerant than the young second-child mother. Although everyone raises a child, the psychological maturity of 35-year-old and 25-year-old mothers is still different. This is the natural law of human growth and cannot be changed.
35-year-old second-child mother, may be a successful career, after struggling when young, after getting the career you want, you will feel that the child is more important, but Dabao has grown up, there is no way to participate in his growth, and giving birth to a second-child baby is to make up for the regret that he cannot accompany the child. Therefore, if you are prepared for this, you should cherish the second child more.
Second-born mothers before the age of 35 may still have their own pursuits, want to pursue a career, or still want to live a free personal life. In this way, it will feel that the child is a burden, so when dealing with the child's education, it will sometimes lose its measure.
The second-born mother after the age of 35, after social experience, and the parenting experience around her, as well as the process of raising a baby, can be more patient to guide the child, which is a better way for the child to grow.