Fun Kan Red Chamber 317: No rules and no distance, Qiao Ying'er picked willows and caused trouble; lawless, obedient Chun Yan was unjustly beaten
Ying'er, Lotus Officials and Ruiguan were picking willows and weaving flower baskets in the Grand View Garden, which was undermining the rules of Jia Tanchun's reform of the Grand View Garden.
Daguanyuan divides production into people and has its own output. The mother-in-law works hard, not only to provide the daily use of each room, but also to take out a part of the money to share with colleagues at the end of the year, and the rest is their own hard money. There is nothing wrong with their caregiving.
However, Ying'er insisted that he never had to divide the rules, and he disregarded the rules and picked them casually, and it was unreasonable to use the excuse of "compensation".
The Jia family's daily gifts to The Yuan, Xue Baochao did not want any of them, which caused the "snow hole" in her room in the Garden, which was rude.
Jia Mu had earlier reminded her that she was not like the words, and the relatives saw that they were "not like". Today, I am still the same, even if I don't know or take the rules of the Jia family to heart.
Nowadays, the warbler's private picking of willows and flowers is equivalent to "stealing", which openly undermines the management system of the Grand View Garden and harms the interests of the mother-in-law, which is really rude.
And her attitude of not thinking that there is a mistake, like Xue Baochao's attitude of "repeatedly teaching and not changing", represents the inadequacy of the Xue family's upbringing and should be paid attention to.
The mother-in-law seems hateful, but in fact, they are in a passive and bullying situation. The pampered and proud servants are the ones who really need to be rectified.
Many plots and characters in "Dream of the Red Chamber" need to be understood from a more objective point of view to find many of Cao Xueqin's unswritten writings.
Chun Yan came over for her aunt to check on the willow trees and flowers, and bumped into Ying'er and others who were "breaking the law". She did not blame the bad at the first time, but instead started from her own problems, starting from the shortcomings of her mother, aunt and aunt, and eased the relationship between her cheeks and Lotus Officials, Rui Officials and others.
Chunyan's mother, He Baozi, is Fangguan's dry bride, and her aunt is The ganniang of Lotus Guan, and she is considered to be a sister who grew up with them. She also knows that lotus officials and other people have a bad personality to talk. In particular, the warblers are relatives who cannot be offended, so they will gently remind them.
She said that the older her mother and aunt are, the more they love money, that is, to lay the groundwork for warblers, they pick willows and flowers, which is a bad way for people's finances.
She also said that her mother was greedy and cheap to wash FangGuan's hair yesterday, and let her sisters wash it first, which also implied that her mother and aunts were somewhat ignorant.
Besides, my aunt was in charge of this willow tree, flowers and grass, and arranged for her to come and take care of it regularly, that is, "Catch the warblers, don't let her be embarrassed and leave quickly." After a while, the old people came "without understanding", and everyone was embarrassed.
Chun Yan is rarely young, but she is very knowledgeable. She is deeply aware of her own problems and then gently persuades others. Can help but not help relatives, especially she also said a "wise quote" from Jia Baoyu:
(Fifty-ninth time) "A girl is not married, but a priceless jewel; when she is married, she somehow conjures up many bad problems, although it is a bead, it has no glorious treasure color, it is a dead pearl; when she is older, it is not a bead, but a fish's eye." How can you make three things out of a clear person? ”
Jia Baoyu's daughter's "three points" theory is very problematic. He believes that his daughters are all glorious jewels when they are not married, and it turns out that the internal tilt of Yihong Courtyard is extremely cruel.
After marriage, the daughter began to change and lose her luster, but it was true. Many people who can't do anything when they are daughters have no scruples after marriage due to changes in environment and stance.
When you are old and become a mother-in-law, you are all fish eyes, which is naked discrimination and personal opinion. The thinking of the elderly is indeed out of place with that of the young, and it is more stubborn. But what has changed is not the elderly, but the chasm abandoned by the times.
Jia Baoyu's "daughter trichotomy" is not correct, it can only be said to be novel. At least at this time, among the several people gathered, Chunyan was a jewel; Lotus Andiguan was a bead; and Ying'er had become a fish eye.
Ying'er did not think much of Chunyan's bitter mouth, and as a result, she really waited for Chunyan's girl to come over.
The mother-in-law looked at those who were originally her financial interests, and she was naturally distressed by such a waste. Warbler she did not dare to say, only to count the fall of the spring swallow.
It is said that this matter is here, only need the warbler to stand up and say two sentences to make a few flower baskets for the girl to make gifts, and before you tell the old man, the mother-in-law will be finished with face. It is also the common sense of man. But the warbler is bad at not looking at the face and not speaking human words.
Ying'er smiled and said, "Aunt, don't believe Xiao Yan's words." He took it all off, bothering me to make it up for him, I picked him up, he didn't go. Chun Yan smiled: "You are less naughty, you only care about naughty children, the old man will be serious." The mother-in-law was originally a foolish and stubborn person, and at the same time she was nearly dazed, but profit was fate, and she didn't care about all her face, she was in pain and heart, and there was nothing she could do, so when she heard Ying'er say this, she sold her old man to the old man, picked up her staff and struck Chun Yan a few times, and scolded: "Little hoof, I am talking about you, and you are still strong with me." Your mother hates the root of her teeth and tickles it, and wants to tear your flesh to eat it. You're still coming to me like a strong boy. Chun Yan was ashamed and anxious, crying: "Sister Ying'er is stubborn, you will beat me seriously when you are old." Why does my mom hate me? I didn't burn the face wash again, what's not! ”
Chun Yan had been advising Ying'er to leave quickly, but she didn't listen. Now that the aunt has come to the obvious wrong face, she also joked that these are all picked by Chunyan for them to play, which is not a deliberate "trouble" and destroy the relationship between people's aunts and nephews and mothers and daughters!
It is wrong for the warblers to pick willows and flowers privately, and now it is even more hateful to alienate the mother, son, aunt and nephew of others.
People are born selfish, so how can it be possible for a mother-in-law who has a stake in the interest to calm down and distinguish between right and wrong? Naturally, conflict arises.
If we jump out of the contradictory category of Ying'er, Chunyan, aunt, aunt and Chunyan's mother, and extend it to the changes in the relationship between Madame Wang and Lin Daiyu after the arrival of the Xue family, we will clearly find that the reason why Madame Wang dislikes Lin Daiyu more and more is that many problems lie in the Xue family.
No matter what position the Xue family was in, it caused Lin Daiyu to quickly lose her original position in Lady Wang's heart.
In particular, Lin Daiyu was taken advantage of by villains in the "palace flowers", "Aunt Xue's persuasion to drink", and "hostility to Jin Yu liang marriage", which was completely quoted from the Xue family's "senseless disaster".
It is not that the Xue family is "eventful", and Lin Daiyu will not fall out of favor with her aunt.
Lin Daiyu is like that Chunyan, although there are also some problems, such as dissatisfaction with her parents, but if there is no Xue family, it will not break out with her aunt.
Therefore, Ying'er went to Xiaoxiang Hall in the morning to get rose salt because of Shi Xiangyun's "scabies problem" in the Wuyuan, which derived the matter of picking wickers, reflecting the Xue family's "rudeness" to the Jia family and Lin Daiyu's "chaos".
Gossip aside, here the warbler saw that no one listened to her, and she couldn't figure out the farce of the Chunyan family, so she gambled and threw half of the wicker and flowers into the river and turned away.
She only said that she made a scene that day, which added trouble to the Chunyan family, Yihong Courtyard and the Jia family, but she did not benefit at all, and it was clear that she was harming others and harming herself.
Chun Yan's side was kindly treated as a donkey's liver and lungs, but it caused a lot of trouble. Not only was he beaten a few times by his aunt. Her mother came over and beat her too. I had no choice but to run to Yihong Courtyard for help.
Therefore, after Fangguan washed his hair and made a big fuss in Yihong Courtyard yesterday, today's Chunyan family made another fuss.
There is no way for the attackers to have no way to rely on Chunyan's confused mother He Pozi, and it is debatable that she can only rely on musk moon. It is said that there is a way to attack Jia Baoyu, how can it be impossible to clean up a mother-in-law? However, just like Xue Baochao, "I don't care about myself, I don't open my mouth, I shake my head when I ask" and I don't know. It was not in her interest to discipline He Baozi for the attackers, nor was it necessary.
This time, the relevant people everywhere reflected the deficiencies of Xue Baochao and the Xue family, and special attention should be paid.
Musk Yue surrendered He Baozi yesterday, and when she saw the commotion again today, she simply didn't bother and directly sent the little girl to find Ping'er.
(Fifty-ninth time) Musk Yue said to her mother-in-law and the crowd: "I can't complain that this sister-in-law said that we can't control their affairs, although we are ignorant and wrong, now we invite a person who can manage it to take care of it, and the sister-in-law will be convinced and know the rules." Then he turned back to the little girl and said, "Go and call Ping'er to us!" Ping'er didn't have time to call Lady Lin. "The little girl should go."
To say that Musk Moon is the nail on the head, to deal with these stupid women, Ping'er is the best to use. If it doesn't work, just get out, and everyone will worry about it.
Remember this "throw out", and Qingwen will be treated like this in the future.
When He Pozi heard that ping'er who was looking for Wang Xifeng was in front of him, she panicked. Listening to the little girl reply to Ping'er's words, let him go out without saying anything, and also hit forty boards, he was even more panicked. He began to cry and plead bitterly, saying that he was a widow and that it was not easy to raise children. I have forgotten all the confusion of these days.
The problem of He Baozi is that if he can't put himself in the right position, he will be as pitiful as a clown.
But isn't the problem of He Pozi's problem the Jia family itself? Look at He Pozi, Grandma Li, and Jiao Da, which one is not "self-inflicted humiliation". What did they gain in the face of absolute power?
And the reason why the Jia family raided the house is that they can't put themselves in the right position! If they could be like Grandma Lai, keeping their mouths shut about the grace of their masters and respectfully remembering the etiquette of the master and servant, how could they be "liquidated"?
Therefore, the Xue family represented by Ying'er has problems and can still have a choice. The Jia family represented by He Pozi also has problems, but it is a companion like a companion tiger, and if you are not careful, you will be destroyed. Readers should take this as a warning.
To find out what happens next, look at the next breakdown!
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