Blind date is a relatively fast way to solve personal problems, according to our understanding, no matter what form of blind date, eventually both parties need to have a time and space to be alone, so as to better understand each other.
In addition, blind dates also show that a person is mentally prepared to enter a state of love, which requires a basic premise, that is, to deal with their emotional historical problems, with a pure personal single identity to prepare for a marriage, if this premise can not be met, then blind dates are obviously harm to the innocent party.
However, the man's blind date process in the text is more strange, originally he thought that he was having a meal with a lady in advance, and as a result, the other party came and said that he wanted to call her blue face to come and accompany him, that is, the so-called "male girlfriend" came to eat together, saying that the woman really called a strange man.
After the arrival of the male girlfriend, very skillfully touched the head of the blind date woman first, and the woman slapped the male girlfriend back with disgust, this way of flirting and cursing in the eyes of the clear-eyed people, it should only happen between the couple or brother and sister, two men and women who are completely unrelated by blood, and at the same time, the non-romantic relationship is so inconsequential that the blind date man is suddenly confused.
However, the woman did not realize that there was anything wrong with the intimate action of the male girlfriend, but also enthusiastically introduced the male girlfriend to the blind date man, indicating that the relationship between the two was very good, and the male girlfriend was usually very good to her, and after saying it, she smiled and beckoned the male girlfriend to sit down and eat together.
Although the scene of this scene makes the blind date man feel very embarrassed, in order to show his gentlemanly demeanor, or to ease his inner tension and embarrassment, the blind date man politely asks the other party's male girlfriend what dishes he likes to eat, but the other party does not seem to be any restraint, bluntly saying that he does not care, there is no taboo and picky eating.
After the dish is served, a more embarrassing scene continues to spread, the blind date woman only cares about talking intimately with the male girlfriend throughout the whole process, the appearance of the two ear sideburns will really make people misunderstood, and the blind date man who is hanging on the side wants to chat with the woman on the other side, and he is not looking down to play the mobile phone, and the onlookers see that they have committed "embarrassing cancer".
And what makes the blind date man feel incomprehensible is that when the three people eat, the male girlfriend actually sandwiches the dish to the blind date woman affectionately "feeding", afraid that the woman will choke when she eats, and the male girlfriend also intimately pours a cup of water for the woman to drink, and the two look like a loving couple.
Just can see that the blind date man is uncomfortable, this meal makes it difficult for him to swallow, the blind date man simply put down the chopsticks to stop eating, just stupidly watched the two in front of him "show love", and did not have any desire to communicate with the woman, it seems that he does not know how to continue to kiss.
However, the blind date woman and the male girlfriend do not seem to notice each other's embarrassment and dissatisfaction, the two still show their love selflessly, after eating and drinking enough, the male girlfriend began to prepare to get up and leave, before leaving, the male girlfriend is very "polite" to inform the blind date man, he still has something, ready to leave first.
I thought that after the other party left, the man and the blind date woman can have a separate opportunity to get along, and as a result, the blind date woman also stood up and told the male girlfriend that she wanted to go out with the other party, and then told the blind date man that she was also leaving, if she could continue to keep in touch, the next time she met, she would not return to the male girlfriend to leave hand in hand.
Only the blind date man sat alone like a wooden chicken, after returning to God, the blind date man helplessly shook his head and took out his mobile phone to prepare to pay the bill, and a blind date full of expectations ended in this way, which was very sad and painful.
Seeing that the blind date man is so embarrassed and humble, netizens are very sympathetic to it, and at the same time, the practice of the woman and her so-called male girlfriend is also a lot of complaints, have called themselves lonely and unheard, and even this so-called "heterosexual friendship", doubting whether the relationship between the two is really just friendship, and bluntly saying that the woman's approach is too inappropriate, if you do not want to go on a blind date, you can not come, there is no need to bring a male girlfriend over to interact intimately to disgust the innocent blind date man.
What kind of occasion is a blind date, what does it mean, I think everyone knows in their hearts, on this occasion with their so-called male girlfriends to come to dinner together, and even the two people are close to each other, is this really to solve the problem of personal single marriage, or simply rubbing rice? This has to be doubtful.
Then again, no matter who it is, I believe that they cannot tolerate the existence of their partners in the so-called "red face" or "blue face", these titles with fresh names, challenge people's conventional cognition, but also seriously affect the couple or the relationship between the couple, at the same time, this also brings us a huge confusion: how should we look at this phenomenon?
Many people think that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, even if the relationship between the two people at that time belongs to pure friendship, but with the development of the relationship between the two people or the change of a party's ideas, the so-called heterosexual friendship will also change in real time, if the existence of this friendship is connived, it is undoubtedly a major hidden danger to the emotional interests of the innocent party.
It can be said that from the standpoint of the innocent side, if you seek full respect for this friendship, then it is bound to bring invisible harm and dissatisfaction to yourself, and in the long run, a temporary acceptance will only make the feelings undergo more and more severe tests, and the feelings of both sides will continue to suffer friction and torture.
From the perspective of the party who is keen to maintain the friendship of the opposite sex, maintaining this relationship beyond the opposite sex is not only unfair to the normal marriage relationship, but also a perfunctory view of the so-called red and blue faces, since you want to get along with each other so indiscriminately, you should be isolated from marriage and love, do not expect the understanding of the innocent party, and can not base your so-called "advanced ideas" on the pain of the other party.
Regardless of whether the blind date is successful or not, you should know the minimum respect for the other party, even if it is to take the process and form, you should also let the other party be rejected very comfortably, rather than bringing your own friends of the opposite sex to come over the whole process like "show love", after all, the other party did not do anything sorry, he did not have this obligation to bear unnecessary injuries and heavy blows.
Do you think it's appropriate for a blind date to bring your friends of the opposite sex with you? What is your opinion on the practice of the blind date woman interacting intimately with the male girlfriend throughout the whole process? Welcome to leave a message to discuss, thank you!
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