As the saying goes, more children and more blessings, under the premise of having the financial ability to raise children, people are prosperous, and the family has more hope.
However, have you ever seen a daughter-in-law who has just given birth to a child and her mother-in-law has accidentally become pregnant? This situation is still very rare in the real world, after all, the sons are so old, under normal circumstances, there is no longer the idea of giving the son a younger brother and sister.
However, in Fuyang, Anhui Province, such a thing really happened, when the daughter-in-law had just given birth to a child and was still confinement, and the young mother-in-law came to take care of it.
While taking care of the child, the mother-in-law felt unwell, so she went to the hospital to check her body, and she was shocked that she was unexpectedly pregnant!
Looking at the little granddaughter in her arms and the B super single in her hand, this mother-in-law has mixed tastes, this time point is too coincidental, and even netizens who watch the hilarity are not too big to joke about "the father-in-law is strong".
If this child is born, the future family relationship seems to be more complicated, their granddaughter is older than their own child, this age upside down generation relationship will also have an adverse impact on the child, and even if it is still young, it is also twenty or thirty years later to raise the child, how much can it help the child at that time? Will it cause trouble for the son and daughter-in-law? These are all factors to consider.
But if you don't want this child, it is your own child after all, and it is also a life, so this young mother-in-law is a little embarrassed.
In this regard, netizens have supported the move, some agree with the mother-in-law to give birth to a child, and some oppose.
For example, some netizens said that "if there is a condition, you can give birth, try not to let the child become a burden on the son", "Stay, it is fate", "If the economy allows, there is nothing to be born, and it is better for the two babies to grow up together".
These netizens are supportive of mother-in-law to have children, after all, in modern society, people's concepts have been relatively open, and some rare things are more tolerant, just try not to let children become the burden of sons, because then, it will damage family harmony.
Some netizens were opposed, saying that "since I became a grandmother, I still think about my sons and granddaughters" and "In our village, I will be laughed to death."
The words of these netizens are not unreasonable, but is this netizen's village so feudal? Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law have children before and after, as for being looked down upon so much?
Dabao view
After all, it is the view of an outsider, and it is you who really understand this family, so whether to keep this child or not, you must also make your own decisions.
Whether to have this child, in fact, mainly depends on whether their own economic conditions allow and whether they and their families have enough time to take the child, if these two prerequisites are met, it is not impossible to be born, do not have to care too much about worldly things, do not have to care too much about the ideas of others, everyone in just a few decades, in the premise of not violating the basic categories of law and morality, or to live for themselves, listen to the true thoughts of the heart.
Finally, I wish this family and Harmony, Home and All Things Happy!
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