How many families in this world want their children to become jackie chansels?
I think that whether it is a poor, middle-class, or a rich family, "looking forward to the son to become a dragon, hoping for a woman to become a phoenix" has always been the common desire of parents.
I don't know if everyone has such troubles, watching the child grow up, we fall into meditation: what kind of person should he become in this life?
Is it to hope that he will achieve a certain position in this society, but also hope that he will not have to work too hard; it is to hope that he is popular in this world of flowers and flowers, but also hope that he is not burdened by human feelings; whether it is to hope that he can be healthy and healthy, or that he will go to see the larger world...
I have endless reverie about my child's future. But there are also the possibilities that are most afraid and least willing to think about.
Therefore, "hope to become a dragon, hope for a daughter into a phoenix" is the wish of every parent, every parent is doing their best to fight for the best education and living environment for their children, only look forward to one day children can be admitted to a better university, the future has a good job, parents will be at ease.
But parents, have you ever thought about how your child feels? And shouldn't we come into this world to feel everything properly?
When the child is young, afraid of growing up and not showing up, he began to apply for cram classes and art classes from a young age, seven days a week, and no day was idle.
Parents wake up, this will only lead to your child when he is young, is a good child you say go out glorious, take it out can win face for you!
But in the eyes of experts, it is not a good thing to let children learn too early, at this time, children are innocent, go down to the river to touch shrimp, run wild in the mountains, spend a whole afternoon reading favorite cartoons, etc., is the life that children should live at that time.
Psychology also mentions that children's brains will prune information on their own during development. The outside world instilled knowledge in him prematurely, which is likely to lead to his boredom and loss of interest in learning.
In this contemporary society where eating and drinking is not worried, physical health is far less important than mental health
According to WHO data, the total number of depressed patients in the world will exceed 350 million in 2021, while the number of depressed people in the mainland has reached 54 million.
The National Health Commission has identified four groups of people that need to be targeted and prevented – pregnant women, the elderly, occupational high-pressure groups, and adolescents.
Many parents do not understand this, the child is so small, how can it get this disease?
As we can see from the small video above,
Giving high expectations imposed at the age of ignorance, using some "frustration education" and "percussion education" attitudes to achieve the eyes of parents that children are "sensible" and "studious", will only make a seed planted in the hearts of small children, and when he takes root and grows into a towering tree, then when he finds that he wants to correct, he can only get a sentence "It's too late"!
And the essence of learning is a kind of mood, when you are in a library where you are all studying hard, when you are working hard for the final exam and studying hard, when the surrounding atmosphere is trying to improve, will you be willing to fall behind?
In short, learning, that is, only by taking care of time and spontaneously entering the artistic conception of learning, can it be called real learning!
Here I personally, purely and purely recommend a movie "Galaxy Tuition Class"
The film tells us that whether it is a father or a son, in the process of growing up, it is a process of mutual learning and influence, rather than unilateral and unconditional giving.
When your child understands this, it means that your son is really "Jackie Chan".