Living in this world, everyone will encounter unsatisfactory times, unhappy times, and the most important time in life, how should we face difficulties and challenge setbacks in order to become a strong person in life.
There may be some people who encounter difficulties, will be depressed, or complain about the unfairness of fate, but some people encounter difficulties, will always face the difficulties, perseverance and hard work, in order to see the rainbow after the wind and rain.
Next, I would like to give you a few suggestions on how to do it in difficult times!
First, adjust your mindset
Nine times out of ten things that are not satisfactory in life depends on what kind of mentality you face. A person with a good mentality, no matter what kind of difficulties he faces, he has a sunny mentality to face everything!
A person with a good mentality always sees the positive side, because she believes that all misfortunes will pass, and as long as they survive, everything will be better.
A few days ago, I saw a blogger sister on Weibo, even if she was sick, she did not have a sad face, giving people a very optimistic look.
After learning her story, I realized what a powerful person she was inside. She had talked about a boyfriend of three years and was about to get married, but unfortunate bad news struck.
Once when she went to the hospital for examination, the doctor told her that she might have a small thing on her body, and if she did not operate in time, it would probably threaten her life.
Since her boyfriend knew that she was sick, his attitude towards her changed, and he also told her to break up fiercely, when the girl was very sad, cried, and made trouble, no matter how she kept it, the man was determined to break up with her.
Later she figured it out and felt that this man was not worth remembering. At that time, she began to have a very good mentality, feeling that life is short, there is no need to be sad about unworthy things, and she should spend every day happily.
Later, because she had a good mentality, saved a little money, she went everywhere to travel, when she came back from a tour, she found that her condition was much better, so the mentality is very important, sometimes the most important thing in life, win in the mentality.
Second, learn to find the reason from yourself
In our lives, there will always be some people who love to complain, complain about this, complain about that, encounter problems, blame always others, and never look for reasons from themselves.
For example, my friend, feels that she is a complaining woman, always feels that her husband has no one else will make money, see other people's husbands get promoted and raise, or buy a house in the city, she will always complain.
I feel that I have suffered with her husband for half a lifetime, and I have not let her live a good life, sometimes she will be very angry, always saying that her husband is not good, men often hear such words, and they will feel very unhappy in their hearts.
So in the end, the relationship between the two people is getting worse and worse, and quarrels have become commonplace.
I think my friend should face up to his own shortcomings and learn to reflect on himself, because after all, people are not perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, should look at the advantages of others, encourage others more, so that life will be good.
Sometimes people have to learn to find reasons from themselves and learn to correct their mistakes at all times. Only when you continue to summarize yourself, reflect on yourself, and stop all complaining, will you become better and better.
Third, learn to read good books
No matter at any time, people should not stop learning, but should learn to establish the concept of lifelong learning.
Only by reading more books can you change your outlook on life and values, and in our lives, you will encounter all kinds of problems, but some people can find answers in books when they read more books.
I remember a reader who wrote to Mr. Yang Xia, why he was always very annoyed and encountered many problems.
Mr. Yang Dai replied to her like this: All the troubles in your life come from reading too few books.
It is undeniable that reading can really change a person's destiny.
Therefore, you have to read good books and read well, and the road of life will become wider and wider.
As long as you remember these three points, your life will go wider and wider, and I hope that everyone has a colorful life!