Hello everyone, I'm a tomato mom!
I found that most of the people who pick up their children at the school gate every day are moms. Most of the parents who go to their children's schools for parent-teacher conferences in the middle and final periods are also mothers. All kinds of mothers piled together, and you can always find something particularly interesting.
I often go to school to pick up my son, and most of the mothers in my son's class are also familiar with each other. There is a classmate Zhang with the same surname as our son, and his mother often appears when sending her son to school, but rarely shows up when picking up the child.
Every morning, we would meet almost always at the school gate. This mother always dressed very professionally, with a formal dress and a pair of black leather shoes under her feet, and I guess she should be a more successful professional woman.
Sure enough, my son said to me one day, "Mom, today a city leader came to our school to check, and there was a leader who was the mother of our classmates, and she talked to us so kindly." ”
I guessed correctly that this mother was very successful in the workplace, and it can be seen from her dress style and conversation demeanor that this is a very capable mother at home and outside the home. A woman's family status and social status can be seen from dressing up, and indeed the mother's family status can be seen.
Bao Mama's status at home is not high, you can see one or two from dressing up, look at you right?
The first: the mother who is always very well dressed, usually very financially independent, and the family status is also very high.
Women at work are the most attractive, because they are in the workplace, so they are generally dressed in a more quality manner. Moreover, mothers earn their own money, and financial independence gives them more right to enjoy a better life.
Moreover, because some mothers are very successful in their careers and have made great contributions to society and family, they have a high status both outside and at home.
The first: cleanly dressed, plain and unpretentious mothers, are the givers in the family.
The best are always in the minority, and most of us are among the ordinary people. Most mothers will reduce their material needs for themselves after having children, because raising children is also a big expense.
It's like I have two children myself, although the income is OK, but buying clothes rarely buys big brands, always thinking about economic and practical things is very good, with that money to save, or think about investing in children to learn something better.
Therefore, most of the very clean and tidy, simple and unpretentious mothers, they are the silent payers of the family, for the sake of their children, for the future planning of the family, although they make money, they also have to save flowers. Even if you hold the economic power of your family, you are not willing to spend more money on yourself.
The third kind: most of the scruffy mothers do not make money and the family status is not high.
The love of beauty is shared by everyone, especially women. If you're not a really money-free mom, I don't think many people are willing to appear in front of others in a dirty and dirty manner.
Although some mothers are still very young, they have given up on dressing themselves, and the economic conditions are on the one hand, because they do not make money, or they do not have the economic dominance of the family at all.
Without the money to dress herself up, Mom was defeated by the reality of life. Other mothers are defeated by their children, and since giving birth, all their time and energy have been spent on raising children and doing housework.
In the "widowed" marriage, fatigue polishes the mother's yearning for beautiful things. She didn't have the time or energy to dress herself up, and if she had time, she would rather take a break and relieve her tired nerves.
The fourth kind: mothers who dress differently and are unreliable are generally mothers with very independent personalities.
I used to meet a particularly fashionable mom at the door of my child's school, and she always dressed differently. Donkey shoes, leopard print shirts, red hair, personality, but also has its own unique charm.
Fortunately, the city has enough tolerance, and everyone does not have so much time to study how others should dress, and everyone has their own different pursuits.
This mom is a single mother, and it can be seen that she has a lot of personality. The ability to live independently is also very strong, and it seems that a person's life is more exciting than the whole world, no matter what other people's eyes think.
So, how should my mother dress?
I think that even if the mothers have children, even if life is "a chicken feather", how important the children and husbands are, we can't give up dressing up on ourselves. We dress up properly, make ourselves look very spiritual, and establish a good external image, not for the sake of "pleasing the person", but for us to be more confident and temperamental. This kind of self-confidence will give children hope and positive strength in life, for their own sake and for their children, please pay attention to dress as much as possible when you have no time.
As for the style of dress, everyone has different preferences, and it is enough to follow their own hearts and consider different occasions. If you have higher requirements for yourself, you need to learn more aesthetics, or watch videos to learn how to dress, so that your husband and children will love you more!
As for the status of the family, I think it should still start from the female efforts to be independent, the mother is the whole world of the child, but I think the child should not become the whole of a mother. Having children and being a mother, women are great enough to no longer sacrifice everything for their children. To be a mother, you should also be a happy woman, you have to have your hobbies, you want your decency and self-confidence.
Interactive Topic: Moms, how do you usually dress?